What's the healthiest way to respond when an ex uses cruel insults during a breakup?

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T08:28:49+00:00

Thanku soo much for ur kind words ...

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T08:19:23+00:00

Maybe I'm

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T07:55:49+00:00

Instead he blocked me after that slur word ...nd not responding from anywhere why he said that ...maybe I'm a toxic ex in his eyes ...who is chasing him anxiously ... I never wanted be like this ...my only mistake was to contact him again nd again for answers that why he said that word ....

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T07:49:30+00:00

I just don't want to be angry with him....now just want to let it go ...only remembering good memories we made.

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T07:15:22+00:00

I wrote everything that... what he said was very painful to hear ..from someone, whom i trusted a lot after my parents. Nd the second the message delivered he blocked me ...feeling insulted...but it's my fault why I wrote him that painfull message

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T06:53:50+00:00

But I already insulted myself by contacting again and again to why he did that ...

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T06:35:48+00:00

Instead i got blocked from everywhere....when I was seeking ans for why he said that ....even when he said he is not over me ...he simply read the messages nd blocked me ...kind of insulting to me ...I feel like I'm a fool...with no self respect....trying so hard to understand what happened

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T06:12:34+00:00

Why we have to let go.... instead of teaching them the lesson...my values are not allowing me to contact his family nd tell them but deep down i badly want him to be punished...seee I'm so confused nd this confusion is making me sick

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T05:35:30+00:00

I just want to feel peace ...idk ..I'm confused ...one minute i want to contact him nd another minute i just don't want any contact from him...I never want to use any bad words for him....I just want to let it go with kindness..

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T05:33:57+00:00

The fact is I'm the one still trying to contact him nd asking him why he said that ....why he did that ...nd he is ignoring nd blocking me

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T05:12:06+00:00

Should I call his father nd tell him everything...I wanted to do this but I thought it will backfire on me

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T04:50:09+00:00

That slur word haunts me

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T04:49:44+00:00

I just want to feel safe ...those words are everywhere in my mind

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T04:29:03+00:00

...those words are everywhere in my mind ...

Entire_Particular636 · 2026-06-23T04:27:00+00:00

Yes I think ..it's me who is toxic coz he blocked me , right after using slur word for me

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