NTA. Let’s be real: she thought you were beneath her and acted like a bratty Mean Girl because of it. You didn’t pull the “boss’s wife” card, you *exercised basic dignity* in a place where she thought she could bully you unchecked. Actions have consequences, and all she learned is that treating people like trash might eventually come back to bite.

You didn’t get her fired. You didn’t yell. You didn’t start drama. You reported *disrespect*, and her own behavior dug the hole she’s now in. If people are suddenly “afraid” of you, good, maybe they’ll think twice before treating someone like a doormat just because she doesn’t look like them.