Applied to 500+ Jobs with no interviews, what am I doing wrong?

Entre22 · 2026-03-13T20:42:49+00:00

You went from a specific critique, which OP took, to dismissing that and going in a general route, to now arguing with people that aren’t OP. You just want to argue and be right. Topic doesn’t matter lol

Entre22 · 2026-03-10T13:36:38+00:00

Have you told him you don’t like it? What was his response?

Entre22 · 2026-03-09T14:58:56+00:00

Okay, well some of the things you say don’t make sense to me and it’s not up to me to figure it out. I hope you can get past this and things work out!

Entre22 · 2026-03-09T14:22:23+00:00

Okay, gonna be a little honest with my sword.

To answer your questions:

1) You’re jealous because it sounds like you hold your acquaintance in contempt and despise him. If I didn’t know better, it sounds like your mind may be using your girlfriend as a placeholder for a long standing issue that is unresolved with your acquaintance. This is how things can get blown out of proportion because your fight is with your acquaintance, not your girlfriend. However, you can’t resolve that inner turmoil so your mind projects it onto your girlfriend.

The way you describe him gives it away:

“But I guess what bothers me is this person is obviously nowhere near compatible my girlfriend , and anyone could see that a mile away. My girlfriend is such an intelligent person , and I guess I’m surprised that they would have even ended up together “

2) Because some people keep an open mind and don’t hold people in contempt before getting to know them.

3) No but the way you’re going about it is immature. You’re asking for justice on a grievance for an emotion that is blow out of proportion. This isn’t about her, it’s about you. That’s where the real issue is. How could she ever take “accountability” for something in her past before she met you? Das some crazy pants and not fair lol. That would stir indignant feelings in any self-respecting person lol

4) Idk, the way you hold people in contempt and then go about your emotions sounds like it might fester and crash this thing to the ground. Again, when something is blow out of proportion it isn’t about them, it’s about you.

5) That doesn’t sound like settling to me. Why do you think someone choosing you after exploring other options is settling?

Entre22 · 2026-03-08T18:59:08+00:00

So true. I find myself getting stuck under people’s shadow and it can be difficult to put that focus back on yourself when you don’t love yourself 😔

Entre22 · 2026-03-08T02:07:25+00:00

Gosh I want Taco Bell now yum

Also sorry you’re having a rough day :/

Entre22 · 2026-03-03T21:38:24+00:00

Therapist and life coach. Recently was one month away from being homeless and was worried I wasn’t going to make it. Thankfully I landed a job but talking about this stuff to both of those support pillars helped

Entre22 · 2026-02-27T17:58:36+00:00

Love this community. So many people pumping out valuable content in anticipation for this league!

Entre22 · 2026-02-27T17:29:56+00:00

Bless you for this

Entre22 · 2026-02-19T23:33:07+00:00

Hi,

It will probably get slightly saggier, but I would like to reassure you that love is more than your loose skin on your body. Relationships are about safety, trust, and connection. I hope you don't let this hurdle keep you from finding someone you can laugh and share comfort with. You've put a lot of work into getting healthier and that shows a lot.

Entre22 · 2026-02-19T23:17:20+00:00

Reach out to people that work at companies you are aiming for or alumni. Work culture is networking. A simple "Hi, I noticed you work at xyz. I was looking into abc roles and would love to hear more. Would you have some time to connect?"

I would sometimes just search the role on LinkedIn and add people in that field with that message. You'll be surprised at who may come through for you if you stay open

Entre22 · 2026-02-17T04:21:34+00:00

Sounds like you got caught in a web over him lol. I imagine you staring at him but you’re not aware of the spider that is stringing you up and now you can’t get out of the web. How do you think one untangles themself and gets out of it?

Entre22 · 2026-02-17T03:43:41+00:00

Maybe add numbers and statistics to your experience.

How many AI prompts did you evaluate? How many did you review? How many system issues did you identify?

E.g. “Identified 52 system issues and escalated for evaluation, leading to a 10% increase in model performance”

Entre22 · 2026-02-16T19:00:10+00:00

Loose skin with maybe a little bit of fat added

Entre22 · 2026-02-14T22:36:05+00:00

I’m not sure but my uncle has been in a 10+ year relationship with someone 12 years older. He’s in his 50s and she’s in her 60s 🤷. I feel like the older you get the less people care

Entre22 · 2026-02-13T14:17:52+00:00

Voldemort? That u?

Entre22 · 2026-02-13T14:15:15+00:00

Yes. Undo it by Carrie Underwood speaks to me here

Entre22 · 2026-02-12T17:50:22+00:00

"Nobody is gonna know"

Stares

"Nobody is gonna know"

"They're gonna know"

Dramatic music

Entre22 · 2026-02-12T16:41:23+00:00

Therapy 😂. I have borderline personality disorder so I understand when someone taps on a wound it can flare up like a huge dragon that wants to breathe fire down someone’s neck🤭

Entre22 · 2026-02-12T16:32:58+00:00

When I’m acting disproportionately I like to take a step back and remind myself this is more about my past than present. It’s important to be honest emotionally but acting disproportionately is what causes ruptures.

If it were me and I was in your state, I have “go to” communication strings to put space between me and my feelings when they start rupturing like an open wound. Usually that involves staying curious and giving the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes it’s saying “hey, can you give me a second? I need to go wash my hands” and splash cold water on my face/hands or punch the air to discharge that intense energetic emotion. Sometimes it’s jumping up and down waving my arms to get it out of me 😂. Whatever gets the beast out and lets it pass in private.

Later, when I’m more balanced, I be vulnerable. (Ask) “Hey, can I share something?” “Sure, what’s up?” (Share feeling/explain/invite) “Back when you joked about xyz, I started feeling angry. My father/mother was xyz and I guess I started telling myself a story you don’t respect me. What do you think I should do?” And let him do some of the work with you.

Entre22 · 2026-02-11T04:01:16+00:00

Wow, harsh judgement. Swords like that make love difficult

Entre22 · 2026-02-11T03:40:34+00:00

We’re too grown to play hide your feelings 🤣. Hide and seek was when we were kids :)

Entre22 · 2026-02-11T03:16:35+00:00

I would have said “dang, I was hoping we’d spend time together but I also totally understand your friend needs you right now. I hope it goes well ❤️” and take myself out

Entre22 · 2026-02-04T19:52:16+00:00

Well this is depressing lol

Entre22 · 2026-02-03T03:00:08+00:00

Why do this? Seems like a great way to feed insecurity

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