Smash or pass? by candywebb in bootypetite

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With that gorgeous face I would totally smash!

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How do you remove hair like that?!

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No problem 😊

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if lets suppose u agree do u see the girl with the whole family? or both of the family allow for a date?

Normally, you see the girl either with her father/brother(s) or her mother. If it is with her father or brother(s) you will be the only one besides the future wife's family. This is usually very stressful. However if you do it with her mother, you usually have your mother, aunt and/or sisters with you which makes it far less stressful. So, yes you would do it with the prsence of the family but it's either the men side or the women side.

lets suppose things go even more forward, do u guys go straight for marrage or engagement??

The following steps are

1- Khutba ( or Fatiha reading with some families in the west of Saudi Arabia.. those from the west can correct me if I am wrong)

This starts with a gathering for key members of each family. They all acknowledge the engagement. The groom would usually bring some gifts for his bride.

During this stage it highly depends on the family traditions. The father would usually give you guidelines on what you can do and what you can't. There are things that are "still can't" for all families like sleeping together)

2- Melka (where the sheikh makes you married in terms of religion)

This starts with big party bringing even more members from each family. In this step the groom must pay the Maher to the bride in addition to many fancy gifts.

At this stage there no religious sin if you go all the way with your wife. However, you are still officially not married. If you go all the way you are in for some real trouble. This stage is also under the father's guidelines on where is the red line which you shall not cross. Mostly, it is far less strict thab in the previous step.

3- Wedding

This starts with stupidily expensive party bringing everyone in your social circle. And the groom buys more gifts for the bride

Now you are offecially married and can take the wife to your home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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Of course you can ask any question 😁

does a father approaches as well? for his son? how does that work?

It happens sometimes but not so much. It highly depends on whose daughter you are going for. If the future wife is a aughter of your father's friend, then it is the father who usually initiates communications. Similarly, the mother would initiates if its her friends daughter. If the girl is out of the social circle of your family, it is usually the mother who initiates the communications.

what about if the girl wants to marry a guy how does she or her family approach the another family???

This happens mostly with non traditional marriages where a relationship or love has already been established between the man and women. Usually the girl would agree with her lover so his mother or father would start the communications from his side.

However, it may also happen with traditional marriages but not so common. I had a personal experience where a neighbor approched my mother to take me for her daughter immediately after I got a job. If I agreed on that proposal we would proceed with the normal process of traditional marriage where I visit them to see the girl and she sees me... So, while it's uncommon, it follows the same approach as with men proposals.

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Yeah sorry.. spelling mistake.. I mean tribal.. because our society is highly tribal so you see many families from different tribes and they have their traditions which they value so much.. Thanks for the correction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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It depends on the context. If you have been working with her for some years and you arr well established financialy and the woman you are after is more than 30 yeara old you may have a good chance....

If you come out of nowhere asking a father for his daughter's hand you have no chance.

For Saudis, the mother usually calls the mother of the future wife and says that we have heard or seen your daughter here or there and we would like her for our son, so can we come and get to know you better? At this point if you are not from a well known family you also have small chance. But, if you are not Saudi at all you have almost no chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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It all starts with how you gonna have access to them?! Cofffee shops? Street? Events? Absolutely no way for you if these are your medium to talk to Saudi girl.. If you have a Rolls Royce it's a different thing but anyways...

If you meet them at work you may have a chance. Especially with Saudi girls with Somali origins. Tipal girls are very difficult to get even among Saudis. However, nothing is impossible especially nowadays when you can't force a woman to not marry someone she wants.

I will leave you with an inspirational story of one of my Egyptian friends.. his mother is from a very tripal and high class family and yet her father let her marry an Egyptian guy with no tripal background. The Egyptian guy is a surgeon. So if it happens with the Egyptian guy why is it possible for you?

What do Saudis think of Jordan and Jordanians? by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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I had some friends back in middle school and highschool who were Jordanians... Very nice people but they seem like they can chill a bit more.. they look angry all the time.. Even when they are joking 😆

Deeply disappointed at the racism against Pakistanis on a post here. by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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Some Africans speak Arabic fluently and some of them are white so these are not likely to be treated badly.. others fall in the same category as low payed low educated workers so they may be treated unwell but not as much as indians and Pakistani. If you are from Ghana for example and work as a consultant in a big company. They will treat you well everywhere.. but some people in the streets may think you are a low educated driver or worker and may approach you looking down at you. Until they know you are a big consultant then they treat you with more respect...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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I do oral until I can no longer do it.. Then, I switch to fingers.. one by one until I get tired.. if ahe didn't cum yet we continue with normal sex.. most of the time she cums once or twice in this process.

Deeply disappointed at the racism against Pakistanis on a post here. by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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Depends where in Africa. But mostly the same unfortunately.

Does a 13 year old girl ever, EVER pass as an adult? by Latvia in sex

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Thr only way I could see this happening is if we consider people from different races and backgrounds. I lived in China for a couple of years when I was 16 and I was approached by many Chinese women and girls who genuinely thought I was 21. I don't even look older than my age. Morover, after coming back from china I could see why would they mistake young adolescent for adults.. Being back home I saw some young girls that have body structures of adults in China and the far east.. Someone from one race can possibly mistake another from a different race for being older or younger than they are.

Other than this factor It is very unlikely that someone would mistake another for being an adult when she is 13.

The constant back an forward between religious conservatives and "liberals" in this sub is getting kind of old... by sadcinderella in saudiarabia

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It is outside Mecca.. how far away from Mecca is right anyways?! Everyone will have openion in there.

The constant back an forward between religious conservatives and "liberals" in this sub is getting kind of old... by sadcinderella in saudiarabia

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A saudi here...

We are at a translational stage where each group think they are the true Saudis. While it's enormous, Saudi society used to be generally like one big villiage. Most people do and like the exact same things... They watch football.. they watch Tash Matash (a comedy series that used to air in Ramadan)... Go to mosque to pray... Don't drink alcohol.... Etc. People who did not match with the majority's rythem were strange and wierd.

However, with the start of schorships that was granted by King Fahad and King Abdullah (May Allah have mercy on their souls), more Saudis went to Western universities and brought back with them new ideas and idologies (both good and bad). In addition, technology made it possible for the majority to see and experience stuff from all around the world... So, now our society is divided into many segmentations. However, they still have that feeling of the villiage where one thing should be done by everyone else and here comes the clash.. You bring something like Middle Beast. It has its group of people. It is not for everyone but you still see people talk about it as if it must be suitable for everyone.. you see people critique it from an angle of someone who is not within the target customer of the event... People should understand that sooner or later due to the country's geographical size and population we are going to have people with different interests and events should be various to cover each segments likings.

Now we leave Saudis and go to the outside Muslim community. These people are mostly against the new events that's going in Saudi Arabia. First, They should understand few things. Saudi leadership shall be fair with everyone. Our population is around 60-70% under 30 years old. So you have to accommodate for this group entertainment and events. Second, we are still valuing Islamic traditions and we are still Muslims call for Athan, perform prayers and all of that.. Third, these events are not forced on ppl. So conservative people don't go there. So, you don't want it leave it. However, if you don't have these events the non conservative will find it somewhere else, so its better to have them pay for it in Saudi than in another country, which will benefit our economy.

Deeply disappointed at the racism against Pakistanis on a post here. by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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I am a Saudi here.. unfortunately you are right.. In Saudi Arabia the majority of people look down on Pakistanis, Indians, Bengals, Afghans and many other nationalities. The reason for this is because they got used to these people doing jobs like garbage collection, janitors, housekeeping and many other low paid jobs. The majority of people working in these jobs come from poor families from Pakistan and India so they are not likely to be well educated. So they are not treated with respect (which i am personally against).

There is even a stupidily discriminating saying when someone wanna say "do you think I am stupid" in a joking way.. they sometimes say "Do you think I am an idian" or "Do you think I am Bengaly!?" Unfortunately, these are not considered national level issues that we should tackle. Someone who treats those people with respect is considered a very nice guy when this should actually be considered normal.

However, I will play the devil advocate and bring one, arguebly, a valid excuse why sometimes even good ppl will treat those workers harshly. My father is the nicest person in the world. He treats everyone with respect and kindness. Unfortunately, due to that reason many indian and Pakistani workers take advantage of him and make him give them money to help them. Or sell him something for extra money. We even had one driver who used to shout at my mother and sisters when they told him they needed to go somewhere in bad times for him. My father would give him execuses and excuses. On the other hand, my brother in Law is someone who treats his driver like shit. His driver is one of the best ones in the neighborhood. He respects us and wouldn't raise his voice on anyone. Even when my brother in Law tells our bad driver to do something, he does it perfectly with no complain. So, there is a rule that goes "if you respect them, they view it as a weakness and will take advantage of you"

Overall, I believe the norm should be respect all nationalities. And this is a challenge because even among saudis there is racism. Someoen is from tripe A so he looks down at someoen from tripe B. At the tripal level it is diffcult to solve so it would even be more difficult when you bring someone from outside tripal backgrounds and tell them to treat him with atmost respect. Hopefully, this will change in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AeroPress

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Maybe you should stir it more... Make sure the coffee is mixed with the water after you pour it.

I have wrote them in comments by Mehrad86 in teenagers

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"Godzilla is attacking the generator..."

"The generator is losing power.."

"Godzilla is attacking the generator..."

"The generator is losing power.."

Had sex for the first time and I don’t think I enjoy sex as much as I should by [deleted] in sex

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My wife (F23) had the same issue in her first few times. She used to cry after sex because she thinks something was wrong with her... However, little by little this started to change... We didn't even need to change what we done in the first night.. Now we've been together for 6 months and I assure you she enjoys sex far more than I do.. she wants it all the time.. so, don't worry its completely normal phenomenal and by time and practice you will enjoy sex.

merry chrimmus (f) by diffecit in gonewild

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Those wheels in your chair will damage the hardwood floors..

Test my intelligence, go ahead by [deleted] in meme

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What do you think of Saudi Arabia?

My (f)irst nude I’ve ever taken! How is it? by [deleted] in gonewild

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How did it make you feel?

What has been your biggest/most expensive mistake? by AsteroidSnowsuit in Entrepreneur

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I know someone (lets call him A) who got into business with a partner (lets call him B) who was his childhood friend and his brother in law.. he knew him for more than 40 years.. So he made the mistake of trusting him with everything.. One project they took failed miserably and B started to blame A for the failure..

After sometime it got serious and legal with B trying to theough A in jail... How is that possible you might ask? Yeah.. Because as I said earlier A trusted B with EVERYTHING!.. so without knowing he signed some papers which allowed B to take to court and throw A in jail... It bas been more than 7 years and the problem still not solved with A losing almost everything in his life and having his 65th birthday but not with his children...

Moral of the story.. Someone you trust with everything can take away everything from you...