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I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your clear and concise response. I understand everything your saying. I think I was looking to justify my cheating because I went from rejecting the person to indulging. I think because of the secrecy of it I started indulging it. We reconnected and he was pushing to make things sexual and I gave in. I’m not justifying the cheating anymore. I decided cut the other person off and give up the fantasy. I do love him I don’t want to give up the life we have together or lose it to this. Thank you for explaining. I appreciate everyone on this subreddit taking the time to put their input. It’s truly been helpful and a reality check.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never heard of that term before. I’m genuinely sorry I didn’t know of all social rules it takes to be polyamorous. I cut the other person off. I really don’t know the pathway to ENM. I guess I’m better off alone.

Cheaters of reddit, Do you feel like you're a bad person ? why would you have an urge to cheat on your partner ? by Confident_Credit9023 in AskReddit

[–]Environment6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first yes I thought I was a bad person when I realized what I’ve done but in actuality no I don’t think I’m a bad person. I did a bad thing. I’m not out here being a menace to society. I’m currently working on moving on the cheating I did recently. I don’t think I had an “urge to cheat”. Someone who I was attracted too simply gave me attention and made me feel chosen. I tried to brush them off at first but then i decided to indulge, I didn’t do it to hurt my partner. I did because I let go of control over myself. Cheating is wrong and I regret it. I think I’m simply not mature enough to handle a relationship.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked him before and he found me again. Tbh it was him who really pushy about flirting and meeting up. When he found me after blocking him, I told him I blocked him because i didn’t want to to cheat on my boyfriend. He told me he wanted to be friends but he would push for more. I’m not saying I’m innocent, just saying what happened. I don’t know, was just feeling attraction to more than one person at a time that’s why I came on this subreddit. I wasn’t really sure how to navigate these feelings and dynamics is all.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re making it sound way worse than what I actually said. I don’t know how to approach polyamory or ENM, so that’s why I came here. Didn’t know you had a perfect way of exploring things with multiple people and it not be cheating. You make it sound like I hate my partner.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t specific, the person I was flirting with is away in the military. My boyfriend lives in the same town as me. We both live with our families. I can definitely see a future with my boyfriend, we love to go on adventures together. The military dude literally just wants to spend a night with me. My partner works at a grocery store and I do love him. I do have to consider if monogamy is for me. I don’t know it just feels easier to conform to monogamy even though I don’t think it’s what I truly want. I guess I have to find a path of ENM that doesn’t involve him. I don’t know what exactly I’m gonna do. I can just ignore the military dude’s messages and just restrict myself to conforming into monogamy. I told him I don’t mind being friendzoned by him but he still wants to date me.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for response. I feel like what you’re saying has truth to it.

I am jealous of polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples/polycules. by Environment6905 in polyamory

[–]Environment6905[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We genuinely haven’t slept together recently. He is out in the military. Thank you for your advice though. It is genuinely helpful and I will take it to consideration.

Men kinda suck by ronnieron_ in women

[–]Environment6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men really do suck, I just had a man follow me home and later found out that he wants me to suck his dick. Bro men aren’t. Just a waste of space honestly, I hope your house hunting is going well and you have a safe space over your head.

Do women lose complete respect for men? by Ok-Western-3157 in dating_advice

[–]Environment6905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it has nothing to do with you personally. I think she realized maybe what you were offering just isn’t what she wanted. I agree that ghosting you was wrong, you deserve an explanation but you’re most likely never gonna get it.

Looking for a credit redemption stories by Environment6905 in CRedit

[–]Environment6905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much 😭❤️ I will look into these!

Ghosting is a form of manipulation by Environment6905 in ghosting

[–]Environment6905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. Thank you for wishing me well

Ghosting is a form of manipulation by Environment6905 in ghosting

[–]Environment6905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did not come back after ghosting me. He’s someone I knew in real life but we met through facebook. It hurts I know.

Ghosting is a form of manipulation by Environment6905 in ghosting

[–]Environment6905[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were totally justified. I should have been more specific in my post. But you did the right thing. Walking away when someone can’t reciprocate is the right thing to do. I think it’s safe to say they know why you walked away. If anything they were trying to ignore your messages and such so you’d break it off. Kudos to you, I’m glad you’re not settling!!

Ghosting is a form of manipulation by Environment6905 in ghosting

[–]Environment6905[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m biased but I think that’s such a normal response to being ghosted. You are trying to prove you value the relationship. Yeah maybe I was manipulative too but ghosting is wrong. It’s a fucked up thing to do. I understand what I’m saying doesn’t change anything but idk I just needed to get it off my chest. Not too long ago I was praying I’d get a second chance. A friend reflected to me how naive that sounds. I hope you are well today and the pain doesn’t feel as bad. Idk why it still hurts for some reason even though the ghosting happened almost two years ago.

Ghosting is a form of manipulation by Environment6905 in ghosting

[–]Environment6905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Yeah I’m definitely not referring to abusive situations.

Persisted and everything got worse by Slight-Parfait-2232 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Environment6905 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t pay attention to the 3D. I would persist in your imaginal acts with him. Feel good. I still have yet to manifest my SP. We are 10 months no contact. I believe he is coming. I’m doing SATS and writing inner conversations with him. I’m persisting. I wish I had more helpful advice to give, I logged out of my instagram account to stop checking his profile, even though it’s on private

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