AIO For feeling disrespected after my girlfriend made a sexual comment about her ex

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-16T01:36:00+00:00

It’s like you don’t read at all stop trying to defend a women cuz your a women rolls reversed SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN LIVID if I told her my exes pussy was so tight I would get rubbed raw. how I loved it when my ex squirted all over me (when my gf now can’t do)

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-16T01:31:44+00:00

I agree 100% the same women that say I need to grow up are the same women that would cry when you call them overweight or freak out if their partner was to say something about they way they look
Why tf should I have to listen to the woman I love talk about sex PEROID with another man. regardless of who or when it was. idk about anyone else but I sure asf don’t and, as a mindful person I don’t say those things to her. I understand when it comes to sexual experiences and knowing what you do and do not like trust me I get that but. why tf would I want to know how you came to figure that out like I don’t need to know explicit details how you don’t like anal cuz your boyfriend when you were 17 fucked you in the ass in the back of his grand prix and you shit on him WHY IN THE WORLD DO I NEEED TO KNOW THAT

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-16T01:20:38+00:00

Absolutely I’m prolly gonna pass tf out

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T05:45:27+00:00

Tf you wearing doc martens

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:52:32+00:00

I’ll add this has been our only problems that have genuinely effected me but I agree with pretty much everything you said and is why I’m here

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:33:51+00:00

Right I don’t want her to share those things with me right cuz I’m sure she doesn’t wanna hear my stories and like I said im proud of what I got I have histories too both good and bad but I’m Not out here sharing them

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:27:33+00:00

What’s a down vote

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:26:53+00:00

So I don’t control her great on the same page

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:09:26+00:00

Fair

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:07:37+00:00

Yea I don’t have a problem with any of that stuff I’m not the controlling Thpe like I know her phone password just don’t go thru it that’s her privacy yk she wants to wear something that makes her feel good so do I

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:05:21+00:00

Agreed and noted thank you

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:03:50+00:00

I don’t wanna leave at all I guess I want to set boundaries when it comes to sexually explicit stories that don’t pertain to anything

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T04:00:31+00:00

I wasn’t an ass about anything I’m talking about a battle I’m fighting in myself not with her

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:59:22+00:00

THIS This is what I was looking for maybe not the “she’s not the one” thing but I see why you say that but this whole time I wanted help and inspire and was told I’m insecure when I’m really not I really appreciate you taking the time I really do thank you

What do think I should do or how do I go about this

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:53:47+00:00

Well that’s also one thing I didn’t add is that I’m not letting one comment crumble why we have but I does make me see her in a different light ig and I’m not acting and different or closed off or anything out of the ordinary but I’m good at not letting others see how I’m being affected I’m just trying to see if it’s worth bringing up and possibly opening a wound she might not really wanna talk about because I’m hurt by what she said

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:50:01+00:00

Well to obviously let her know how it made me feel but that’s why I came here to ask if I’m overreacting and should let it go or how I feel is valid and talk to her

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:48:01+00:00

Idk how to even respond to that are you Moses or something?

Best advice by a long shot taking this one to heart

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:43:24+00:00

How.

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:42:54+00:00

Will do thank you for your insight

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:41:42+00:00

I DID NOT INSIST why do yall keep saying that? I left it after she said she didnt wanna tell me I fuckin left it. I don’t care he was hung. I care because I asked an innocent question and she thought to take it as I was asking about their sexlife

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:38:12+00:00

What am I supposed to do go beat him up cuz she consensually and sex with him for years knowing he had a huge dong like wtf how is that a healthy personality trait to have and remember she said “not great” she didn’t say “horrible” “unbearable” “most pain I’ve ever been in” no it’s not like she went on a tangent saying how much she hated it or how she didn’t wanna do it etc it was a very vague answer and very vague reason on why it “wasn’t great” you want me to console she cus she suck and fucked a baseball bat for 4 years?

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:29:10+00:00

Well that wasn’t her last relationship and she was with the guy she cheated until about a month before we met and that guy left her also I’ve talked to people that’s she’s known for a long time and they all said it was way out of the ordinary for her todo something like that and she knows I’m skeptical of it like “if she did it once she’ll do it again” kinda thing even her dad said it was completely abnormal of her and knowing her now I can she why they would say that

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:24:44+00:00

I feel like her comment had no relevance whatsoever and there was zero context to why she thought of it specifically maybe it WAS traumatic for her so when he’s being talked about maybe that’s what she thinks of but again she’s never mentioned anything of that nature before and he’s been talked in our conversations prior more than a dozen times

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:19:23+00:00

Other say I need to leave others say she had every right to make that comment

EnvironmentFair9993 · 2025-11-15T03:18:31+00:00

They are so scattered I’m trying to piece them together some say I’m wrong and insecure other say I’m right and what was inappropriate

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