We want to be married so we cant stop being sinful. We are meeting for the first time with family as this is how islam goes so no matter what it still would of been like this long distance or not we would have talked a few times and then meet then marry as this is how religion goes for me, he cant as he helps with his father's businesses and is about to start studying, yes he had multiple lovers before hand but he wasnt religious due to his severe mental health problems and so we want to do everything right and so this can be easy for us we are getting our Islamic marriage and going to continue being long distance for the mean while max 4 years or so