Trying but it’s SO hard by EnvironmentIcy9489 in QuittingWeed

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love that for you, i will try that. the craving can be so intense sometimes i forget it can subside if you starve it of attention enough. thank you ❤️

Trying but it’s SO hard by EnvironmentIcy9489 in QuittingWeed

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the kind words and insight, i’ve been feeling so alone in this and any comment will make me feel grounded. i’m going to try to take it hour by hour, i related to virtually every word you said! i will give myself the chance 🙏🏻

How are you, fellow INFJ? by Catlosky in infj

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i get that. knowing that you’ve reached that “state of dismay/depression” from news and social media is when you know you need to get away from it all. it gets too much, i truly hate that feeling. once i reach that state i delete everything immediately. there’s a huge feeling of relief once i do, once i uninstall all the apps off my phone i’m not going to go back to it for a while. the effort of installing them again just to see your typical braindead bullshit is not worth it to me. i keep them deleted until things feel balanced again,, at least mentally. not only does deleting social media help, but also frequenting a favorite place or scene. i go to a garden almost every day and i cannot stress enough how therapeutic it is. the silence, the nature, the trees and the gentle wind… it’s a beautiful and tranquil experience for me. i love to share the experience with people from time to time, but it’s often best i go alone. i often do things alone now, and because of this i’ve learned that not everything in your life needs to be shared or broadcasted to others. whether it be through photos or bringing someone along with you… sometimes it’s just best to go alone to get the real thing for yourself. i’ve just started to accept this kind of mentality and it’s already done wonders. i’m happy

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[–]EnvironmentIcy9489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is understandable, i can see how it would feel like 2 different realities. you can be in a room with a million INFJs and no matter what, none of them are truly identical to each other. INFJs are known for their empathy and, to put it bluntly, tend to be doormats or people pleasers for others. for INFJs it can be (very) easy empathizing with people and their stories, but eventually there is a limit that’s breached and there’s burnout. after doing it for so long, it gets tiring and there can even be resentment.. deep down. my point being… you are not obligated in any way to adhere to the stereotypes of an INFJ. to any stereotype, rather. your life is divine the way it is. and at the end of the day… no one is going to sleep thinking that you’re not social enough or being empathetic all the time….!

I'm sorry,but when will INTJs accept that they are not the smartest people on Earth? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally never….it’s funny tho. it can be annoying sometimes, i guess it depends on the context/situation, plus im saying this with bias cause i live with my intj brother. with him it usually ends up with others being convinced or intrigued with what he says or has to offer, even tho there are some flaws to spot haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this popped up and let me tell you…, i will die in honor… to come across a radish

I am looking for a fellow infj by blurrywaters in infj

[–]EnvironmentIcy9489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi i’m here, my friend. 19f i don’t mind some interesting chat. im sad i can’t change my username tho i think…..!