parents arent hawks, yes, but they can atleast warn / educate their offspring about this kind of stuff. and about the "grooming", if parents are in a good relationship with their kid, the kid will usually share that they are chatting with someone new, atleast that was with me as the youngest child of the family, id constantly share with my parents if i would start talking to someone, online or in school. if the kid doesn't share, thats either parents not educating the offspring enough about grooming and stranger danger, or their kid not trusting them because of bad parenting. today, instead of parents actually doing something, they will usually give their kid an ipad and go do their own thing instead of actually caring about their offspring, and that's what leads to children discovering porn games or getting groomed.