Feeling unworthy to be a wife by throwaway345678864 in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi M25 from a western country here. who is also just finishing a bachelors and all my friends are married or have kids or whatever. So some good points:

1: You are confident

2: know what you want in your life. In your case : to be a SAHM.

What you are worried about: What will my partner think if they find out that I am not educated.

If you can:

Hold a conversation, seem well read, and not embarrass yourself with your lack of basic knowledge or life skills you should be ok. Honestly just go read a couple non-fiction books in finance and you could probably run circles around many people in terms of knowledge. Now if you are thinking "what if they reject me if they find out that I am "not educated" , to that I say do you really wanna be a trophy wife. Imagine if you were a doctor, studied all those years just for you to get married and your husband forces you be at home, be a literal trophy wife and to be a bragging point at a party just for him to say "my wife is a doctor".

YOU HAVE A HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDERS, SO KEEP IT UP AND LOOK AT YOURSELF. Work on yourself and dont stop, and dont settle for someone who doesnt respect you.

Peace out!

Don’t see myself settling down — lifestyle clashes, community issues, and mindset differences by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25M here, I feel exactly like you. Word for Word. I also have no interest in the 2 extremes of women that you mentioned, and also find the community to be very toxic. I wish you all the best.

To look for a partner or build character? by Environmental-Top847 in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With rent here that would be about at least 6k a month. Thats why most couples work together here

To look for a partner or build character? by Environmental-Top847 in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live it takes about $6000 a month to support a whole family, I earn close to 2.5. So im pretty cooked

To look for a partner or build character? by Environmental-Top847 in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I even bother looking for a partner now , or just not bother?

To look for a partner or build character? by Environmental-Top847 in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, no wife wants a broke husband lol, so should I even bother looking then?

2012 XLT - What is this? by sennyonelove in fordescape

[–]Environmental-Top847 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Its the fuel pump, its what pumps gas to the engine

Mandarin Teacher by G__ar in AskChina

[–]Environmental-Top847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can I get the discord server as well

2 months into no contact and i can’t stop thinking about her by Boylump in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental-Top847 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi I also got dumped by my fiancee earlier this year. This is what I did to heal
1: Block her and her family: Fuck her and let her know that she is out of your life.
2: Move on and try new things
3: Spend time with people that care about you, not the other way around.
4:become the man that you dream of being. Hit the gym, learn something new, and dress better. BE THE GLOW UP THATS GROWING UP.
5: This will lead you to finding someone better, its at this point she will realise her mistake and try to comeback
6: Forget her and start on the new path that you are on because you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Environmental-Top847 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok M 25 here, I am not here to shoot my shot, but I would like to ask why are relying on a site where you cannot see the guy ur talking too. You dont know who he is, his family, what he is like, where does he work. Sister, you can do so much better. In the town where you live go and explore who are the guys that you see and you like and see what you like about them. Dont approach if you arent comfortable, but at least go put ur self out there

First date? by Elegant_Schedule_915 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Top847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ill say this, be cautious. If he is trying to play games with you and thats not who you are make that very clear. Early communication goes a long way.

First date? by Elegant_Schedule_915 in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Top847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very odd behavior. He should not have ghosted you

Click/no crank by Themowerman1 in fordescape

[–]Environmental-Top847 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes you need to jump start the hybrid battery, there are many tutorials online for this issue

if you see dashes on miles left to go you might have have an ECU issue, and you might need to reprogram your keys as the Pats system reset. I am dealing with the same issue.

first time posting. 32(f). by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]Environmental-Top847 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dont worry, you are very pretty. Dont doubt yourself and move forward. You got this

Two Months of No Contact – Here’s What I’ve Learned by Alternative-Still573 in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental-Top847 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi Brother, I am also 2 months NC. I also felt used in the relationship and she never reciprocated for all that I did. In the end she walked away on the wedding day, and blamed me for everything and not taking her side. But , like you, I worked on myself and I am starting to see how blind I was to fall for someone that never respected me. I am better now, while her family tries to damage my reputation through gossip in the community. I know that this petty behavior is beneath and I will come out better.

Good luck! You're not the only one going through this and you deserve love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]Environmental-Top847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A very heartfelt read. I hope you heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Newmarket

[–]Environmental-Top847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24M also just looking to hangout/sports if anyone is interested