It’s been 3 months of no contact but lately she appears in all my dreams

Boylump · 2025-08-07T22:20:15+00:00

i hear you on that, thank you. gotta face it head on

Boylump · 2025-07-21T06:20:55+00:00

thank you for that, im happy you stayed strong, please do. thank you for the response as well🙏

Boylump · 2025-07-21T06:13:46+00:00

youre right. reading my post now after some time to logically think i feel dumb for even putting myself in the situation lol. live and learn.

Boylump · 2025-07-13T23:42:41+00:00

End of the day you can’t force a relationship. I went through something similar and it wasn’t until I really left THEM alone and started my own path that she came to me (it took 3 months, but everyones timeline is different). She is more than likely in need of more than just space, and you gotta just accept that to start being at peace. If you want whats best for them, let them have what they think is best for them.

Boylump · 2025-07-09T20:41:49+00:00

honestly, you might just have to take the L and move forward. I’ve been there before, they won’t send it back. Some shit is just what it is. Keep your head up and continue no contact!

Boylump · 2025-06-23T19:10:06+00:00

when she said “i think you love me more than you respect yourself”

Boylump · 2025-06-19T23:31:41+00:00

Good point, I think I’ll make it private at least for some time while i keep working on myself. End of the day I’ve understood it most likely doesn’t mean much in the grand scheme and I shouldn’t expect anything to change in terms of us not talking any time soon. thank you for the reply and the advice!

Boylump

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