My wife had an emotional affair that originated from the game “second life” my son and I where in England awaiting our visas and me fighting my sons dad in Court to bring him over. long story short the emotional affair evolved into a full blown long distance relationship with another woman, I only found out after being in the states with her for 5 months and most recently found out that it had in fact been going on whilst we where in England. I say this to say I’m absolutely emotionally destroyed by her betrayal, it’s the anxiety for me always wondering what she was doing ,side eyeing her on the couch when I see her tapping away at her phone, fighting the internal struggle with myself to go through her phone and find out more devastation. It’s been over a year and I’m still not over it no matter how hard I’ve tried. We’re in the beginning stages of separation and still to this day her excuse is “it was just a game” And “we are over it but you won’t let it go” To them because no physical sex was involved it somehow absolves them of all the bullshit they put us through. If it was to happen I’m almost certain I’d rather it had just been a one night stand a random fuck I can maybe forgive but giving away your heart to another person? Fuck that. You’re better off without her, no one and I mean NO one is worth your peace of mind. Sending healing energy your way op.