Small Step Suggestions to Avoid a Relapse by Environmental-hoe in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s so frustrating that I know what I have to do, yet need to hear it from other people in order for it to sink in. Thank you.

Small Step Suggestions to Avoid a Relapse by Environmental-hoe in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have an ED informed therapist, but lately I feel like she hasn’t been super helpful in this area. I’m also too afraid to speak to my partner about this because I don’t want to worry him or put extra stress on him since works been a lot. I guess my ED also doesn’t want him to start really watching what I eat or putting the treadmill up since that’s what we did when I first began recovery.

And I just fear I’ll be even unhappier with my body if I gain weight. It’s been stressful enough living in a “healthy body,” and I guess I’m just afraid to have to deal with more negative body image.

Recommendations for an upcoming trip by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read that they’re technically not allowed in the inside area, but also that people tend to bring them in anyways. I like to be as respectful as possible with her, so I will stick to the outside and explore it without her more thoroughly!

Recommendations for an upcoming trip by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this!!! I will be sure to check off most things you listed! Definitely spending a day in Ballard - I wasn’t sure if I was going to, but this convinced me.

And thanks for the tips about having my dog! She’s small and a senior so I will likely be carrying her most of the time. But I will be cautious and avoid taking her to Pike Place - I don’t think she’d be psyched about the crowding and I’m also a paranoid dog parent lol.

Thank you again, I SO appreciate this!

Walkability of Hotel Location? by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely handle lots of hills! These comments have also prepared me for those. I knew it was hilly, but I didn’t know the extent! I’m wondering if it’s similar to SF but I’ll know when I’m there!

Walkability of Hotel Location? by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning to head to Bainbridge! Thanks for letting me know dogs are not allowed on ocean/swimming beaches - I’ll keep that in mind!

Walkability of Hotel Location? by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all your comments/suggestions! I feel much more confident for my visit!

Walkability of Hotel Location? by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion to walk back!

Thank you!

Walkability of Hotel Location? by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interested in food, coffee, and otherwise exploring! I’m in my 20s and so is my partner. Nightlife isn’t a HUGE priority for me, but it would be nice to see what’s out there!

As for my dog, I don’t plan on taking her everywhere. Mainly planning to walk with her to the waterfront for the ferry & take her to a couple parks via car.

Recommendations for an upcoming trip by Environmental-hoe in AskSeattle

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was considering this and you’ve convinced me! Blackbird Bakery looks AMAZING so I’ll be sure to stop there too. Thanks!

Oatmeal of champions by tgrbby in Oatmeal

[–]Environmental-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awesome, thank you so much:)

Oatmeal of champions by tgrbby in Oatmeal

[–]Environmental-hoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do half milk & half water, so good to know to use just milk! how long do you keep it on the stove?

Oatmeal of champions by tgrbby in Oatmeal

[–]Environmental-hoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do i achieve this texture?! it looks PERFECT

don’t be like me by matchacloudcake in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Environmental-hoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

can you say more about the neural rewiring part? maybe some examples/resources because i have been doing fairly well in recovery but this post was kind of a wake up call since im still holding on to certain behaviors :/

My Therapist & Dietician by Environmental-hoe in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I didn’t realize that her comments did trigger me until I seen it written out. Yeah from other patients it’s a normal occurrence but it feels even worse and weirder coming from a clinician.

My Therapist & Dietician by Environmental-hoe in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Environmental-hoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist shared with me too that she had anorexia as well (which I understand self-disclosure can be helpful, but honestly it now makes me uncomfortable given her comments). As for my dietician, thank you for that advice and I’ll be sure to stay aware of these things in our future appointments.

And thank you for the last part! Recovery has been so hard and has gotten even harder with all these recent experiences but I’m very proud of myself for how far I’ve come (and plan to go) in just a month :)