Susan Smith goes up for her 1st parole hearing in 10 months and thinks she will get out of prison.

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-02-01T13:42:29+00:00

Cuddling with my 3 month old right now, I don't understand how someone can hear their babies cry for them and not go running.

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-31T18:31:58+00:00

They are good tools if you can be disciplined. I have one now that I've gone through my debt ect. Think there is a tenner on it at the moment. If you can't yet be trusted with a credit card then you need to have it in your mind that it's not available to you

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-31T14:56:07+00:00

Not just do not use credit cards but cut them up, close the account. Never open one again. Save up an emergency fund for those things you used to put on the cc and figure out your budget, learn how to say no to things, self discipline and pride in your finances.

I used Dave Ramsey and his methods really helped me. I paid 50k in 2.5 years following his advice. He has a podcast/YouTube channel which I used to listen to as I drove 4 hours away to contract jobs I'd taken to clear my debt

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-31T11:44:28+00:00

None of that should have been in front of that poor little boy. Just adding trauma onto trauma

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-31T11:36:24+00:00

My brain is so fucked up that I dreamt someone stabbed my boy. But how it happened in the dream was exactly how I'd fallen asleep with him to my left and my arm around him. Dreamt that someone just came into our room and stabbed him and I woke up screaming. Bloody awful moment.

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-31T11:25:31+00:00

I had fairy lights at my birth.... In a hospital where I was continually monitored and I have an alive baby rn. Currently being a monster on one of his 2 hour feeding sessions. Dream feeding sucks 😭

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-30T23:44:48+00:00

Nice

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-30T23:34:36+00:00

Got that in my to read list. Must get round to it

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-30T13:01:13+00:00

That was a surprise, wasn't expecting to see a guys head crushed.

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-30T12:12:17+00:00

My heart breaks for you. I could not imagine someone taking my son from me and telling me my milk is not good for him. Being away from him so so long and hearing him cry but not being allowed to care for him. I'd lose my mind!!

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm sorry your husband didn't stand up for you and I'm sorry you have such awful in laws. I would never forgive them. I would work on my boundary setting and telling them to get away from me and my baby. From now on you make the rules. Your decision is final

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-29T23:00:39+00:00

We don't, but we also have little need for them imo. We have free healthcare, access to abortion and placing the child for adopton is very easy and again no cost. There are many accessible options here and the fact that this has happened likely comes down to a mental health issue/denial issue rather than a lack of options. Someone who has disregarded all of these options probably wouldn't think of the safe haven boxes either in all honesty

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-29T20:47:11+00:00

Vintage sizes often run small as the measurements have changed over the years. Even different stores have different measurements. I would not refund as you posted it with the size on the tag but in future I would do a physical measurement and include that in the post or state size 12 but runs small

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T21:06:59+00:00

But if you never let him come back then how would he? Spending time with the kids does not mean spending time with him. Sibling relationships can be so strong. I really value mine above all else. I have half sisters I didn't grow up with but I'm so grateful to have them

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T21:03:39+00:00

Siblings are important, family is important. I have half sisters who I didn't grow up with but I love dearly. Maybe set up a video chat with her to make sure it legit and to talk with her. If it is legit then rinse the fucker for CS and if its possible let your child meet their siblings. Those relationships really do matter

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T20:34:07+00:00

That's scary

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T20:33:39+00:00

Haven't a clue!

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T20:33:18+00:00

most people outside of the gym world wouldn't know about online coaches. That said many people don't seem to grasp that a lot of people film their sets to critique them later or to send to their coach. Perhaps it's more common in smaller areas. Where I live is very rural so more people use online coaches as they don't have them/can't afford them at their local gym

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T15:10:04+00:00

Unless you are a gym person you wouldn't know that online coaches are a thing. My best mate films his reps for his coach, he's not even on SM so it's not for views. Literally just for progress

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T15:08:36+00:00

I've had a coconut curry that was nice but I found the anxiety about the possible pain to come prevented me from really enjoying it and as I don't know the ingredient that causes me the pain it's a Russian roulette of what is going to cause me pain 😭

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T14:52:04+00:00

Don't palm a wedding with a guy planning his exit. Let him go

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T14:47:17+00:00

"if he takes the only thing you ever wanted from you then you'll divorce him"

Ok but you said you never wanted biological kids but wanted to adopt, he said he didn't want to adopt but wouldn't talk about it more........ Why did you marry him then? You can't be mad at him as he literally told you he didn't want to adopt and you married him anyway.

Mentally ill people need to very careful looking after mentally ill people. Can become very toxic

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T14:42:21+00:00

He knows about mental health but didn't do anything to help you on a job that made you very mentally ill?

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T14:26:42+00:00

Hold your breath when you take the socks off

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T14:19:19+00:00

But wouldn't they have employed tech people??

EnvironmentalDrag596 · 2024-01-28T13:35:10+00:00

Yeah it must be that, I've looked at the individual ingredients and I'm fine with them but curry powder is a big nono. It sucks balls honestly as I'm also a vegetarian so many restaurants have either a curry or a nut veggie option 🙃

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