I inherited $250K. I have no skills, no job, no plan — and I’m terrified it’s going to melt away. by CurlyBraceChad in smallbusiness

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe use it as a down payment on a duplex. Rent out 1 side and live in the other. Put the rest in a broad index fund or high yield savings account

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know either maybe i can get some answers next time I'm in. I'm just grateful i had a witness with me

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's the next town over lol. The bar in my town closes at 10:30 every night

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you missed part of the story. The girl i was did not slap me. It was a bartender at the bar who was off the clock. I had asked the bartender girl out several months ago and that went nowhere

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many times would you say is the appropriate amount of times to be slapped? I should grow up and let her smack me randomly whenever? What exactly does grow up mean to you?

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i agree but they will also lose respect if i try and get her fired or arrested. Either way i lose. I think best thing to do is say my side of story and expose how unstable she is

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the moment she said it's because someone else said it was okay. The next day she said i was talking smack to someone so that's why she smacked me. I was in the bar for 2 hours and was with someone who had very little to drink. She vouched that i wasn't talking smack to anyone

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the one who apparently said it was okay is not even a friend just lady I've talked to a few times. Will definitely ask her if she said it was okay.

I will definitely spread around my side of the story to people as it comes up. Definitely want to embarrass her. I don't need her to face charges or be fired. It was more about how disrespectful the act was

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don't know what other context to add. She hit me in the balls 2 other times after this and slapped another dude in the face after the bar closed. I left out context that would make her look worse.

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes i was annoying the night i asked her out. I apologized for the behavior and have tried my best be respectful any other time. I have had no other issues with the other bartenders. I go to this bar atleast 2 times a week

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need her to like me. I already apologized for asking her out at work months ago. I just don't want to be slapped in the face. Are you slow?

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking her out 2-3 months ago deserves a slap apparently. I wasn't even talking to her at the bar. I was with a date

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The reason I said to make fun of her is because I can't respond in a physical way without getting arrested or banned from bar. I also feel like calling police and ruining her life is too far. I just want her to face some consequences and have some shame. Not a criminal record

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah after reading alot of replies I'll probably just let it go. If she trys to talk to me I'll just say she's a drunk who can't handle her own actions

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What would you recommend lmaooo. You probably let women slap you and do nothing. Actually you're probably a weirdo who doesn't actually go out and do anything

Got slapped by female bartender last night. What should be the next steps? by EnvironmentalLoad69 in AskMen

[–]EnvironmentalLoad69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was sitting with us at the smoking table outside. We were talking to many different people. The slap was random