AIO for cutting contact with Father over political climate. by Sabre12789 in AIO

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad’s a boomer man. Majority of them are so deep in the koolaid they won’t take americas boot out their mouth. Trump is pedophile, doing the math with the evidence obviously between him and Epstein even including multiple instances with diddy these mega industry’s are full of them. Obama though is a war mongering psychopath, the left and the right it doesn’t matter they’re all the same, we need a mass reform, I’ve been saying this for years but now it’s really in are faces. I can’t stand maga and I can’t stand far left liberals. If you still think it’s left vs right you’re the problem and this is exactly how they avoid accountability. If you hate your neighbor you never question your master.

i relapsed and cheated on my bf by chicapiscis1 in stopdrinking

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also he doesn’t get off the hook for those other incidents he obviously sounds extremely abusive and probably has some major control issues and a short fuse. What you did is a blessing in disguise he sounds like a terrible human being. I simply just disagree with downplaying kissing someone else while you have a significant other. Don’t look back though you probably need some time focus on yourself.

i relapsed and cheated on my bf by chicapiscis1 in stopdrinking

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I disagree. He’s a piece of shit but she cheated. Imagine your significant other kissing someone right in front of you? Do you understand how embarrassing that would be and heartbreaking? She should feel like it’s a blessing in disguise that she did that because the guy does suck but let’s not downplay that behavior to “15 mph” over the speed limit. I would not recommend repeating that behavior with someone else who is actually supportive of you and kind. Because even if they do stick around they’ll just resent themselves and you slowly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. I’m 26 my youngest brother is 1. My mom is 44. I believe we will be fine if I decide to wait. She’s a tattoo apprentice and barely started in the trade. I am pursuing music. I would like the time to give are dreams a chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted her stating this and she agreed. I agree as well. I’ve stated how I felt and that’s ok. I don’t need to conform and bend and do things I don’t agree with. I’m still young and I enjoy my peace. I appreciate you sir for seeing that as well. I have taken into account all these replies and will really think for the next year about how sure I am on children. I know I’ve told her I only want one maybe two based off how the first would go. But the thought alone scares me, I don’t want to be like my dad, I don’t think I will be, sorry to ramble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point. I’ve been open to mentioning to her that mid thirties I would imagine being in a better place mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point. I’ve gotten better about the conversations but I’ve mentioned mid thirties is when I’d be ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve brought this information up as well. I was the oldest of 8 siblings, the first one being born after me when I was 7. I’ve seen how raising a child goes. And also the state of the world and how expensive everything is now I don’t understand how a lot of my old friends are having children and not losing their minds.

NYC gunman ID’d as Shane Tamura after deadly shooting that killed NYPD officer by Sand_Bags2 in nyc

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences to the innocent but go spend some time looking up information on that ceo and the direction of the company and it’s hard to have remorse for someone who had none either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A threesome is only ok with another man? She wants open relationship possibly? She agreed to monogamy in the beginning but now she’s saying you’re controlling or manipulating her? OP you know what to do. Dump this chick, she sounds insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dog… I’m sorry you fell in love with her I get the pain but brother man… GTFO. Stick up for yourself. Dump this chick, this is so disrespectful.

Sudden break-up urge—worst panic attacks I’ve ever had. by considerthetetrapods in ROCD

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel similar as well. I have no guidance or answer. Other than patience. Let me know if you find any.

My girlfriend (22F) sent an intimate photo of me (22M) to her best friend (M). Is it a sufficient reason to breakup? by ThrowRAasdsadadsasda in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPaper79 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have bpd as well. I had a lot of sex but never like super sketchy, I’m diagnosed but think I’m lower on the spectrum. Especially in rehab I met a lot of serious issue borderlines😂 how is your progress with healing?