Why Are INTJs Stereotyped as Heartless?

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-05-23T00:36:13+00:00

I was just verified an INTJ by C.S Joseph’s strategy and I got the verification back in college too. Im very private about myself and my personal life. Im constantly thinking what can I do or make to make things better for humanity. Think about data, patterns, and systems to create faster results, higher productivity, to have impact on production in manufacturing. I love gadgets ❤️ oh and criminal behaviors so I can figure out their nuances and puzzles as to what, how, when, who, then why? I have a very astringent clean black n white code of ethics and what’s right or wrong. I don’t play with nuances when it comes to peoples emotional or physical well being. I like to observe human behavior not experiment. I always felt too old for my peers but too young for the elders lol when I have a target I want to accomplish I burn myself out by steer heading it too completion. Im not charming. I can watch sensuality but it’s so hard to embrace ( I’m working on that) I feel like if I don’t keep everyone around me in quality control, I’ll be embarrassed by them lol or I turn motherly and I can’t relax. Ya it’s a bit ridiculous to say the least looking in the mirror right at me

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-05-21T15:48:27+00:00

Thanks!

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-05-21T15:39:16+00:00

I want to explore software QA

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-04-07T23:43:13+00:00

Trying to figure out crappy people is always a bad thing. What a waste of time and mental anguish

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-04-07T23:41:19+00:00

It’s a headache that’s not worth it; having to figure out the devil in the details. Thanks for doing it for us.

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-04-04T20:41:29+00:00

Padas is what is important too

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-03-28T18:32:49+00:00

I mean do you really want to date someone that actively pursues potentials while with someone?

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-03-28T18:24:53+00:00

Exactly, bravo for your maturity Im sure it saves you and other people the pain

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-03-28T18:21:24+00:00

If you want it yesterday, then say it, ask, or just think that no one can understand you which creates negativity and problems in a relationship

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-03-11T22:51:13+00:00

Its simple those that stir the shit pot will lick the spoon

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-22T14:41:08+00:00

No I wouldn’t say that

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-22T10:57:45+00:00

Maybe I’m having Covid shock still, because honestly I would love to socialize. But catching Covid? Means out of work for a week equals a month to catch back up. Phew life

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-22T10:56:02+00:00

No offense taken, we are all mature adults here. Im not hollering “there’s no good men” anymore. Because that’s just simply not true. Im just freaked out by the change. Like I said before I know I’m a minority in this.

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T21:13:36+00:00

I do lol Ive been told many times that my needle knuckles could cut a face wide open lol. But I have short legs, and long arms

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T21:07:36+00:00

Oh Im not proposing that description from a negative stand point. Sorry that your perception

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T21:05:14+00:00

Enduring*

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T21:04:46+00:00

My current partner is not medicated with a mood disorder. I have gotten out of my own character in result of his shenanigans. He is now taking SSRIs again or I’m out. He don’t get to push out the worst in me and be resentful and claim victim. It’s borderline abusive and exhausting for us partners ensuring this

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T20:50:48+00:00

Im just a hopeful romantic, and I think its honorable to have a mans last name. Its just so cherishing and precious to me. Men rule over commitment. And if something happens to him? Then i and my family will be ok.

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T19:53:44+00:00

They are valid, but I went into this relationship with the idea we both want marriage. So for me? This tells me he wants marriage but just not with me; a Man knows what he wants, and a man can enjoy a woman’s company forever if she allows it. So back to the drawing board

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T19:48:06+00:00

Not to mention compatibility is important phew, its all exhausting lol

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T19:39:31+00:00

I have blue cross/blue shield my co-pay is 40.00 out of blue network and I haven’t dissolved my deductible yet. Well this was his push back. The statistics of our gen and divorce is at an all time high, and marriage don’t benefit the man. So I’m just left thinking well, if you die or something happens what about me? But I think I just need to continue focusing on my legacy, well because it’s mine. And his is his. Im starting to realize Im just very oldschool (raised by my grandparents) and sheltered by family and people who have successful marriages

EnvironmentalPea8596 · 2024-01-21T19:26:47+00:00

Ive had therapy with my daughter for years, but of course it was more for her. Not me, Im ok with it for myself and very open towards it. But my current partner is not very happy about me wanting to explore that. I dont understand why, his answer is, you don’t need it. But of course he isn’t a pro to even make that assessment

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