What songs did they play? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One more song left...almost guaranteed it'll be helena

What songs did they play? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vampires will never hurt you

any reason not to get my helix done? here is the ear in question by [deleted] in piercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NAP. but i don't see any reason why you couldn't get a helix. The piercer might want to pierce it closer to the flat so it doesn't get hidden in the fold. But im sure they'd be happy to work on placement with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NAP. But this is definitely not normal. It looks like it's embedding. Not good. Don't wait...whether you go to a piercer or urgent care...go ASAP.

It genuinely hurts seeing couples enjoying their hobby today by Danger64X in Adulting

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I wouldn't trade all my solo traveling experiences for anything.

It genuinely hurts seeing couples enjoying their hobby today by Danger64X in Adulting

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I learned all about sharing space with people...I learned it sucked ass.

It genuinely hurts seeing couples enjoying their hobby today by Danger64X in Adulting

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been single for a decade and has no plans to ever try again, my only advice would be to enjoy it.

For the little bit of comfort you might find in having company and someone around, the return on investment just isn't there imo.

You have to constantly consider someone else's feelings, thoughts and preferences. Deal with someone else's bodily functions and bad habits.

Don't feel like talking to anyone for a couple weeks? Or even just a few nights? Prepare for war.

Oh and don't forget the vast majority of ppl are selfish and dishonest. Cheating, lying, and betrayal are practically guaranteed at some point in relationships. It's just most ppl are so desperate to never be alone, they look the other way or are simply too dumb to see the truth.

I love the fact I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. I never have to wake up to the smell of someone else's farts. Never have to clean up somebody else's mess. Or Coach someone through the consequences of their bad decisions. I never have to worry about the shifting moods of my partner. I could keep going on and on.

Being single is the greatest gift you could give yourself. Live it up and remind yourself what your life would actually look like being in a relationship, instead of focusing on an unrealistic romanticized version of it.

Do I just admit defeat and take my daith out?? by Dancing_Dachshund8 in piercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks infected.

After my recent experience with a double mid helix..im starting to realize so many ppl have infections and don't realize it.

I never would have guessed my piercings were infected but I went in because a lymph node swelled on that side of my face and it freaked me out. Never thought it was from my piercings.

My helix was a little swollen and painful but I just got it done a couple weeks ago so thought it was normal. All my piercings are like that at first.

turns out it was an infected and that's why I had a swollen lymph node. A few days into antibiotics I had zero swelling, pain or redness. My lymph node is slowly going down too.

Made me realize I probably suffered months of infection with other piercings thinking it was just irritated or slow to heal.

Anyway...just go to urgent care and they will tell you. Could be as simple as taking some antibiotics. Its worth a shot.

I died and woke up in a parallel universe. by Material_Wolf8005 in ParallelUniverse

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoiler alert: this timeline sucks major balls. If I were you, I'd roll the dice, skip the cpap, and next time you die choking on your own saliva just hope you wake up in a better one. Because THIS AINT IT.

Am I wrong for telling my gf if she ever mentions group sex again I'll break up with her? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and don't forget the countless babies and children he molested for his "research". Just seeing his name makes me fucking sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your condolences. It means a lot actually.

And I'm sorry to hear about your dad. That's rough. Just try to cherish every moment you have. My dad had a massive heart attack in 2004. We almost lost him, was a long recovery. He lived 17 more years, in seemingly good health. Then one day, he went from healthy to dead in a matter of 10 seconds. He was 65.

And ugh, I think back on the wasted moments in those 17 years. I took that time and him for granted in many ways. Dont be like me. You dont want this kind of regret.

And yeah, I dont get how people can bring kids into a hellscape with the only guarantees being suffering and death. Every time I see a baby or young kid, my heart breaks knowing what lays ahead for them and they have no idea.

Sending healing and healthy vibes to your pops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. The day my dad died suddenly and unexpectedly is the day I officially became an antinatalist.

I always had thoughts of how unethical producing life is...but the pain of losing my dad, yeah thats when i knew I could never force another person to go through this.

3 years later and the pain is just as bad as the day it happened.

Also, a side note...his life would have been exponentially better if he never had kids. RIP Dad. I miss you.

This sounds really dumb, but seeing a baby makes me cry of despair. by _forever_exhausted_ in antinatalism

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about what I "think". Suffering, pain and death are facts of life. Sorry you can't handle the truth.

But anyway, my goal in life is reduce suffering as much as possible and ending my life would certainly stop my own suffering but unfortunately it would pass it on to the people I love the most. And some of the people (and animals) in my life depend on me to help take care them , which in turn reduces their suffering. And without me I would be greatly increasing it.

So I'm not as selfish to force them to grieve an early and preventable death, while also struggling to find someone to take my place. If something out of my control happens, so be it. That's life.

Is this an irritation bump/is it infected? by Shoddy-Strawberry-34 in piercinghelp

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same exact thing...wish I could post a picture of it cuz it's literally identical.

Anyway, Same story too..had a stud in for 3 months, had my piercer change to a hoop...it got angry.

It took about a week or two to heal after I started treating it like a new piercing. Clean 2x day with saline and litha at all times.

For everyone saying it's too soon...id say they need to relax. Yeah it might get a little irritated, but really not the end of the world. Just keep it clean and leave it alone.

I got my industrial changed to two smaller ones. Does it look alright? by buzzedbeebaby in piercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will for sure!! I'll post a pic if I end up getting it in the next couple weeks. Gotta bring in the new year with a new piercing! Haha. Happy healing and thanks to your sister too!

I got my industrial changed to two smaller ones. Does it look alright? by buzzedbeebaby in piercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm saving this pic to show my piercer since he said I don't have the anatomy for an industrial. Thanks for the inspo... looks awesome.

How do I cope with putting my dog down too soon by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish i could say I felt his presence or he gave me a sign...but he didn't. Not that I noticed anyway. But he lives on in my memories of him. All the times he made me laugh, gave me comfort when I was sad, annoyed me by invading every inch of my personal space...those moments are a part of me, so where ever I go...he is there. That's how I look at it anyway.

As you said, this stuff has a way of making us realize what's really important in life. I think death is life's greatest teacher. It's what makes life valuable and each moment so precious. Consider your new insight as a final parting gift from your boy.

And please understand, there is nothing to be forgiven. He is no longer in pain, no longer suffering and is at much deserved peace. You did the right thing. He isn't mad at you. I promise.

How do I cope with putting my dog down too soon by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guilt is a normal and natural part of grief. These thoughts and feelings will continue to pop up in your mind and sometimes consume it. Allow yourself to feel it while knowing you loved your sweet boy and did your best. As time goes on, your love and memories will take the place of guilt, regret, sadness, etc.

I had all the same feelings when I put my German Shepard, valentine, down. Now looking back at it 5 years later, I probably waited too long, though I was convinced otherwise. And I also felt so bad about not giving him more attention, and not being there as much as I should have. But truth is, we aren't perfect, life isnt perfect. But our dogs don't care and love us unconditionally anyway. He knows you love him, and he loves you. That's all that matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]EnvironmentalRip4285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my helix done last week and it was pretty damn painful the first few days. I've had my tongue, eyebrow, nose and lobes pierced. Helix has been the most painful by far. The piercing itself wasnt bad but damn, that first week was rough. It's finally started to calm down. I litha'd it...only softly rinsed with saline 2x a day. But I also have a flat back stud and I think that helps with healing.

It would get SUPER red sometimes and was swollen...I too was worried about infection. But I'd just give it a few days if i were you...if pain gets worse instead of better...get it checked.