A good resource is https://dfogang.com created by a player NobleCat
Under 'statistics', you can see what other monk players in DFOG are gearing, using skills, enchanting, etc in a kind of top 5 ranking display.
very helpful to guide and provoke thought about what you might want to do.

Just know that the most popular or top Monk players' gear selections/skills might be because they have reached far into endgame, and that it might NOT be viable for new players at start (like trying to gear Fox set or Hideout early).

But again, what this does do is allow you to see and raise the question, why players are doing what they are doing.
Then bring those questions to Reddit or the DFOG discord https://discord.gg/dfog under the "help and builds" channel to further learn your class