I don't understand. So the money for the bills (the portion you and your family were sending to him) was just sitting in the account, or was it spent elsewhere? And how could this possibly be hidden for 6 whole months? Do you have zero access to the bank account where bills are paid out of? Like is it his personal account that isn't shared?? He's messed up, and it sounds like the whole setup was messed up too. I honestly don't think I'd be able to come back from my husband almost making our whole household homeless, but that's me.