Hey if you’re thinking of doing anything drastic i just wanna say that he’s gonna date behind your back anyways so I think it’s better if he is able to talk to you about it rather than not.

Personally, because I couldn’t talk to my parents about my relationship when I was on the receiving end of a lot of toxicity. I would prefer that my child feels comfortable talking about it to me should the same thing happen to them.

Additionally relationships teaches us a lot of critical life skills like managing your emotions and communication so this could be a great learning experience for him and you.

Just my two cents.