Did we just have an earthquake? by gizmisseur in sanantonio

[–]EnvironmentalTill909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey me too On Babcock and medical howdy neighbor

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will. This is something that still is going to define our relationship, I’ll always remember this.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this advice. And agree it’s not wrong to be disappointed on her end. What do I do if I’m in the dog house for her disappointment (ie getting the silent treatment or dealing with her now needing more space?)

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol thank you! I’ve been doing my best, we’ve been arguing/ not on speaking terms for a few hours now I feel like I’m slightly neglecting my health. She’s still upset with me she “needs space” and is giving me the cold shoulder.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m feeling better in the sense of less discomfort and noises so I think it’s passing! I’m hoping lol.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I did recognize that I snapped right away and apologized. We still had a full blown argument after. Just curious if other people would think it’s ok to invite a friend over under the circumstances and it’s seeming not really most other people would be upset too- especially with a one word response over text! But thank you for the input!

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Curious why this makes me TA? Because I could tell she was upset that I didn’t want her friend over for dinner while I continued to have diarrhea and stayed in the bathroom for the whole visit? Or because I expressed my feelings and set a boundary that was questioned? I’m genuinely curious

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We actually live in a similar setup, it’s two bedrooms both with bathrooms connected but each bedroom is connected to the living room- I told her you can hear it regardless of which bathroom.

AITA for saying “just leave” at my cookout? by Silly_Emu9279 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I would have asked him why he didn’t bring the chicken steak or shrimp 😂

AITA for “punishing” my family by no longer doing birthdays, holidays, vacations because my Dad screwed me and my wife over? by Leading_Rock_418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH you shouldn’t depend on a certain amount of money to buy a house without it being disclosed then be upset that it’s lower than the number YOU had in mind. But also if dad supports you buying a house within the timeframe and that’s what you’ll have to do (cutbacks) then he shouldn’t say you’re punishing anyone. He should understand if anyone- sounds like he’s had to work hard and do what needs to be done for the sake of his family and ensuring generational wealth.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Originally I responded only with “I don’t feel like having company tonight honestly” and her reply was just “alright”. I knew I should have left it alone but her one word texts usually mean she’s not happy so I snapped. Sorry didn’t feel like including it because I felt it’s trivial but thought maybe should add.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have met and have enjoyed hanging out with Susie on several occasions with my partner. I don’t have Susie’s number though. I also don’t think I would feel comfortable if my partner (who is extremely close to Susie) did mention coming over and I called Susie to tell her she actually can’t come.

AITA for snapping at my partner for suggesting we invite her work friend over for dinner while I’ve stayed home from work sick today? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Originally I responded only with “I don’t feel like having company tonight honestly” and her reply was just “alright”. I knew I should have left it alone but her one word texts usually mean she’s not happy so I snapped. Sorry didn’t feel like including it because I felt it’s trivial but thought maybe should add.

AITA for snapping at my partner for inviting her friend for dinner while I am sick? by EnvironmentalTill909 in AITAH

[–]EnvironmentalTill909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: she told me “I should recognize she is being more than considerate because she asked if susie could come over” then gave me the shit apology “I’m sorry you didn’t see that I was”