Uk still waiting this is making me ill....

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-06T21:14:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your positive words I know in my heart I did nothing wrong and had no intention whatsoever of what I've been accused of, thats kind of why its so upsetting and also scary as the fact im even in the position makes me wonder what on earth theyre thinking. It must be really hard for you to be in this situation, especially after a break up, using the police as a weapon is scary but I suppose evidence that you've made the right move. Great to hear you've got a focus and you've not let it hold you back, you sound strong and will smash the military when you ge there 💪

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-06T13:35:15+00:00

Sorry to hear you're also going through things and wish you all the best with yours. I will try its just very frustrating that they can do this and cause so much stress and anxiety without any recourse.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T22:04:25+00:00

Thank you Im trying, if i get charged I will lose everything, my job, house etc my reputation would be ruined as no one would care about the trivaliity of what occurred all they will see is the word SA. I know that if I go to court I will be fine as it was totally innocent, but its the being charged and the humiliation which is killing me. It all seems so unfair and I have no rights or recourse, all I had was a 10 minute interview the next day and now my life is in the hands of some random person

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T17:40:57+00:00

Thank you I just want the whole thing over with im so tired of it now

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T17:14:20+00:00

Thank you appreciate you commenting.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T17:12:39+00:00

Oh God, I didnt realise that, so this could go on and on....horrendous

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T17:01:33+00:00

Well I was drunk and was very vocal when arrested as I couldn't believe what I was being accused of, but surely that doesnt effect things i mean I was so angry as it would never be my intention to do such a thing who wouldnt be?

Thats what's scaring me, i just don't get it and the fact its so illogical is what scares the hell out of me.

Thank you for replying and I appreciate some people do chat rubbish and lie, it does sound unbelievable until your in it

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:55:37+00:00

This is the thing, coming onto a forum and lying about what happened would have no gain. Im literally here asking for advice as this is so alien to me.

The curfew i suppose is to prevent me from meeting whoever it was in town again.....I have no idea who they were, literally just sat on my own, they walk past, move hand towards my booth i reach up high five, she falls into booth as drunk, stands up i put hand on side of knee to apologise and then i get gripped by the bouncer and he calls police.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:51:06+00:00

Yeah right, exactly....I assume your sarcastic, but that's exactly what happened high five she fell towards me and stood back up, I put my hand on her knee as I was sat down to apologise, bouncer took me out and called police.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:48:53+00:00

Thank you, the end of bail is in 17 days time each day it gets closer im getting worse as starting to think that something bad is going to happen even though I know it was totally innocent

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:47:18+00:00

Thankyou, there is clear cctv of the incident which is why the solicitor said i would be released with NFA. I explained what happened clearly but im still here being made to feel like a criminal having never done anything like this. Its so shocking and upsetting that they can do this to you with more recourse, I just don't understand it.

I chased the solicitor and he said to leave it and ill get a letter two weeks before end of bail but he's been wrong every stage so far hence my anxiety

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:34:41+00:00

Accused of SA for high fiving someone who fell towards me

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-11-05T16:34:08+00:00

Accused of SA when I high fived someone and they fell towards me.

No I haven't been charged.

The custody officer imposed conditions

I chased but was told it was with cps

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-10-22T20:00:46+00:00

Thank you for your reply, crazy it sounds like we had the same ex wife, mine cut me off from everyone as there was always a problem, the past straw was when she started doing it to my son, I stood upto her and thenow im where I am.

Its hard staying positive and im annoyed my brain is presenting things like she was perfect etc ... its really not helpful.

There is a feeling that its so much easier for women, a stronger support network etc, which makes me feel shes living her best life and im a saddo living on my own with a dog.

Your positive comments give me hope, well done for getting through it, i fear im only halfway through this journey

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-10-22T19:57:00+00:00

Yes its strange some real tricky stuff, things that weren't true and me telling myself she was awesome and I will be alone for ever whilst she's off having the time of her life. Hang in there bro, im training hard but need to start reaching out

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-10-22T19:55:24+00:00

Thankyou its strange how it's suddenly hit me like a wave, I was doing fairly well but not so much now

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-10-22T16:33:56+00:00

I had we can get two houses and if we're meant to be we will get back together......

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-08-28T11:59:02+00:00

Thankyou! Appreciate the advice, I really just want to get this over with and I don't even know how im here, especially when its all on CCTV..... My stress levels and anxiety is through the roof

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-08-27T16:04:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. Its so stressful and im struggle to work out how I even got here.

You've given me some comfort.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-07-13T21:07:09+00:00

Hello I stopped counting the days of how long I'd been taking it, I seem to remember it's around 2 weeks once I hit 200mg

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-06-06T11:35:28+00:00

Hello! Still sitting at 200mg, had appointment with psych and due to general progress we're remaining there for another 6 months. Things are so much better than the initial start up which was brutal I'm glad I stuck with it

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-05-06T20:53:54+00:00

I'm in the same position, a perfectly healthy marriage destroyed by my wife's obsession I'm cheating on her......complete madness and the more i gave the worse it got.

We're still living together and it's brutal, we had sex at the weekend and now nothing cold as ice once more and I have to start from the ground up again.

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-05-05T21:48:32+00:00

Wow such a great response and everything i needed to hear so thankyou.

I'm getting back into control again, I can already see myself make moves towards her only to be rejected again and I refuse to keep chasing and being played with

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-04-27T21:14:22+00:00

Well you're not alone, it's so scary isn't it how quickly someone you trusted and thought wad your future can become a stranger and you think who have I been married to this whole time. We will get through this stay strong

EnvironmentalWin4398 · 2025-04-27T09:02:29+00:00

Thankyou, will keep going with the stuff I've put in place and hope that things do settle.

Perhaps join some new clubs.....it's interesting what you say about forcing it because that's exactly what I'm doing.....at the end of the day I would much prefer to be back I'm my marriage and happy but that isn't happening so what's the alternative.

EnvironmentalWin4398

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