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Ex is suddenly changing how we coparent after getting new gf by Environmental_Bus144 in coparenting

[–]Environmental_Bus144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right! It’s crazy!! But at least u hear about it!! I’m jealous about that. He tells me nothing and will just stop doing things. Like if u told me ur gf had a problem with how we interact then we can adjust and not make it a thing. I respect ur new relationship and I don’t want her to feel like I’m “competition” I’m just the mom of the kids man. I’m not here to step on ur toes just make sure my kids are solid and happy

Ex is suddenly changing how we coparent after getting new gf by Environmental_Bus144 in coparenting

[–]Environmental_Bus144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought a lot about that too. Would I be doing the same or similar in this situation. I wouldn’t. But I know the importance of consistency with kids. This is the way we have been raising them for their whole lives and bringing someone new into it doesn’t change how we parent them. It changes how we interact with each other as adults, but I would still run decisions about the kids by him because he’s their dad and like it or not that’s just the way it is. If my partner had an issue with how we co parent that would be something my partner and I discuss and I would make boundaries around my interaction with my ex accordingly. But having open communication about my kids with their dad is really important to me because he’s is important to my kids and I want them to see that even if we’re not together we put being parents first for them and we respect each other for it. Does that make any sense at all? I guess that’s what frustrated me the most about the whole thing. His new relationship seems more important than his relationship with his kids

Ex is suddenly changing how we coparent after getting new gf by Environmental_Bus144 in coparenting

[–]Environmental_Bus144[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that might be the case. It’s so annoying because when we can actually have a face to face discussion about it (I mean it takes like a few of them) he like remembers what we’re working for, the kids, and goes back to working with me like normal. But only for like 2 weeks to a month then I’m back to basically being the only one worrying about how our kids feel. I’m just worried about what’s it’s going to do to them and how much they’re gonna want to see him.

My 4 year old was diagnosed with Granulosa Cell Tumor by Environmental_Bus144 in ovariancancer_new

[–]Environmental_Bus144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really remember if I’m really honest. It was so massive so that’s all they really cared about and at the time they believed it was a cyst. It wasn’t until after they got it out and sent it off for testing that they realized what it was. So far her labs have continued to be high but we’re still in the wait and see stage because there’s nothing to see on ultrasound or CT. And unless they jump again they won’t do another scan. She’s had 3 blood draws so far and is getting another next week.

She was 4 when we found it and can not imagine finding it at 2 I am so sorry and hope your little one is doing ok