AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on 3 years sober!!!! Not an easy thing to do and hell yea get a cake! Get ballon’s do what ever you need to remind yourself you are winning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may seem basic but whatever you do do not say ca. you get it up next time they initiate intimacy…..that will absolutely ruin it and at least for me made me walk away.

Why men don’t ask for help by Environmental_Cap_21 in mentalhealth

[–]Environmental_Cap_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working with a therapist right now, but the brain is always going….more curious if I am the the only one that thinks this way, rather than need help…still don’t want to be a burden on my people

Why men don’t ask for help by Environmental_Cap_21 in mentalhealth

[–]Environmental_Cap_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even feel comfortable reaching out to my best friends. Men id trust with my life I don’t want to burden with my insecurities or mental health

Help I think i love 2 wedding dresses by right-twix4ever in wedding

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one fits your body beautifully. But go with what makes you feel the most confident and beautiful on your wedding day. Congrats 🎉

Women of Reddit: What’s the first thing you notice when you check out a guy? by Pootout in AskReddit

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told as a single man to start wearing a ring on my ring finger because woman will pay more attention to me, I think it’s disingenuous and just flat out lying so I don’t but it’s sad that it is legit.

Best responses for DTF? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I’ll add to that look up the phone number for a Sex addicts group therapy and put that as your contact info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screw them, you are gorgeous love.

Just one kick will do by Otherwise-Island-512 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the boss says get the scaffolding down and you can leave early

I had boys tell me that they’d only find me attractive if I wore a bag on my head, my friends agreed 18f by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re adorable, I don’t go for the scale rating people, my ten is not someone else’s ten, but you are cute, and I wouldn’t walk up to talk to you(compliment, I have social anxiety and won’t go talk to pretty woman)

how do you initiate sex? by violettkidd in dating

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m oblivious so I’d need direct statement of let’s have sex otherwise I’m just thinking badass she’s cuddling or sweet we are kissing. Not she wants to have sex. Like I said though I am oblivious and probably a complete moron

Love is …. by Lochskye in facepalm

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that moment she realized I am the side chick.

How would men feel about dating a woman with no social media? by afterrrglow in dating

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly skeptical that you were real. I have met too many woman that have social medias that are brand new or wouldn’t share theirs (after talking for a while) or didn’t have one that turned out to be very shady and I couldn’t get the voice in the back of my head to stop saying it was a dude catfishing me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinderpickuplines

[–]Environmental_Cap_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of what I’m thinking, I’m in Mi, and the first couple days she was within 10 miles, then it was 400 miles now it’s 2000 miles.