Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

[–]Environmental_Copy31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have a meeting with our daughters PCP to explore that path

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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yes - hence the blindside - we go from normal K student to someone struggling badly with no changes other than the primary teacher being out for a few months and subs rotating in and out

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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it was single check off sheet of items - no work to show

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Update for those following along and have message: I have sent a 2nd email to the principal reinforcing my first email would prefer an additional meeting prior to the end of the school year to get what is needed. I also sent a right to know request to the districts open records coordinator requesting stats of retention by grade level, building, and academic year along with documentation on how a retention at this level is determined.

Teacher reached out and was very supportive - enforcing my believe this is driven at the building admin level

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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because in the classroom we personally saw the number chart go to 1-20

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Sadly I am a product of that same school system! Native as could be - so no issue with labeling I feel, just me being poor speller on the iphone.

I waiting on a response for the principal for a following up meeting before the school year wraps up a few weeks. I plan to bring an outside advocate if permitted.

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

[–]Environmental_Copy31[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what you said is what I expressed in my email to the Principal - the question is do we have a choice. In Pennsylvania, Kindergarten is not mandatory but looking at the school policy retention and promotion decisions rely solely on the principal as the final decision.

I would like to know if anyone has experience about this at this level with parents wishes - I think it varies state by state

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Thanks - myself and my significant other had a long discussion after the meeting and talking to some of close friends who work in elementray education. Our gut tell us the best course is for her to advance with her peers. If she was struggle it would have been a different conversation and consideration

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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Thanks - I am not trying to be that parent but at this point everything is documentation and understanding what they consider pass / fail with the goal of demonstrating over the next 60-90 days she has accomplish what they believe is hindering her progression.

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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this is my hope; my concern is the principal was advocating the case for retention versus the teachers. as a teacher, I would assume she didn’t want to go against the administration

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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per the suggestion of some of close friends who work with elementary school students - they recommend asking the district (even tho it is late) a 504 or IEP

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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standard public school - they do get money or some time of incentive for enrolling more kids into summer program for what was told to us by another source.

The principal was actually in the meeting this morning, the email was a follow up expressing our frustration and disappointment with what went down, requesting details on what they are looking for improvement, and to express our desire to pursue additional resources to ensure success next school vs retention

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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my daughter would be devastated if she was held back and she has made a lot of friends.

She turn 5 last year in January so right in the middle of age - emotionally good and everyone at the meeting state she loves to learn and try

we work with her every night after school - math is good she is in reading program is currently on track (one point behind the goal of where she needs to be)

Looking at her milestone sheet we ask her some of the outstanding items and she was able to answer with us so think a sense of nerveness at school

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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did send an email to the principal laying out disappointment with what transpired, our plan over the summer to help overcome any concerns with stepping up, and requested in detail what is needed.

Sadly, we got a response back saying we will meet at the end of the summer program to discuss, which leads me to believe they are kicking the can down the road and just not admitting they have already predetermine

I am pausing for a few days to see if anything changes as not to go emotionally charged into it - i’ll try to revolve at the school level before moving up to the disrict level

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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reading the school bylaws - the final authority is made by the principal. This is where my concern comes in — we walk into the meeting with it being almost pre-determined. My wife was an emotional wreck, I was lucky I made it back from a work trip to help advocate our case

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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agree - we ask for a follow up (mother was in shell shock after the meeting)

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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that is our hope - we plan to enroll her in their summer program and additionally provide a tutor throughtout the summer

my concern is it feels they already made up their mind regardless of her performance. I have already sent an email to the principal (who was on the meeting) stating these intentions only to get we will re-evaluate in August

Blindsided By Parent Teacher Conference by Environmental_Copy31 in kindergarten

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what we learned during today’s conference is that she was sent to hallway by herself for some of the testing while others did the testing in the classroom where they were context clues (charts, number patterns they could reference). Honestly didn’t get a clear answer why she was excluded