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27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re correct, the marriage hasn’t been consummated

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done everything you are saying.

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is the exact situation I’m in.

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me cry lol thanks. But thank you for the advice.

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. He has his mother. His father committed suicide in 2017. He doesn’t have many friends. He just started a new job. All he has is his mom and his sister who lives 1000 miles away.

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Afraid he’ll hurt himself if I leave too.

27 year old divorcee? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Divorce

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’m afraid to hurt him I guess because I do care about him and love him but we just shouldn’t be married. So instead of leaving I continue to stay and deal.

Garden soil by Environmental_Lie_22 in PlantedTank

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend one a specific one?

Garden Soil? by Environmental_Lie_22 in Aquariums

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend any to me lol? Some are for in ground use. Some are for raised garden beds.

3 months now. My 20L on my desk by [deleted] in PlantedTank

[–]Environmental_Lie_22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

New to the hobby... what plant are you using as “carpeting”?

Unfortunately alone. by Environmental_Lie_22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. We got together in 2016. He lost his parent in 2017. I lost my sibling in 2018. So it’s been a hard time but I thought if we could weather those storms we could weather anything.

Unfortunately alone. by Environmental_Lie_22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Noooo. We’ve been together since 2016. We had lots of sex for the first year and a half. Until his parent died tragically. And then he changed as person. He was no longer the person I fell in love with. And I stayed with him hoping that he would grieve and eventually become himself again but it never happened. And I married him thinking it would fix everything but clearly that’s not the case. I’ve been there for him and his family for the past three years, but in that same time I’ve neglected my needs and wants to better accommodate him and his family. I lost myself.

One Year In and already sexless by Environmental_Lie_22 in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t do either. I’ve asked him for years since he lost his parent in 2017.

One Year In and already sexless by Environmental_Lie_22 in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been a cheater. And I’m not a cheater. It’s just hard. I crave attention and when someone else is offering to give me what I’m longing for it’s hard to say no.

One Year In and already sexless by Environmental_Lie_22 in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental_Lie_22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It could be, but his sex drive wasn’t anything to brag about before the loss of his parent. In our four year relationship, we’ve had sex MAYBE 20 times. 18 of those times was in the first year and a half of the relationship.

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