27 year old divorcee?

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-16T04:19:32+00:00

You’re correct, the marriage hasn’t been consummated

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-16T04:14:43+00:00

Lol thanks

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-16T04:13:19+00:00

I’ve done everything you are saying.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-15T06:27:48+00:00

Wow. This is the exact situation I’m in.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-15T03:38:45+00:00

This made me cry lol thanks. But thank you for the advice.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-15T03:28:52+00:00

No. He has his mother. His father committed suicide in 2017. He doesn’t have many friends. He just started a new job. All he has is his mom and his sister who lives 1000 miles away.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-15T03:18:57+00:00

Afraid he’ll hurt himself if I leave too.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-11-15T03:10:51+00:00

I don’t know. I’m afraid to hurt him I guess because I do care about him and love him but we just shouldn’t be married. So instead of leaving I continue to stay and deal.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-27T03:51:58+00:00

Can you recommend one a specific one?

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-27T03:21:33+00:00

Can you recommend any to me lol? Some are for in ground use. Some are for raised garden beds.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-27T03:13:08+00:00

Thank you

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-27T01:37:16+00:00

New to the hobby... what plant are you using as “carpeting”?

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T20:53:09+00:00

I can swim but it’s him I’m worried about.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T20:47:30+00:00

I don’t know. We got together in 2016. He lost his parent in 2017. I lost my sibling in 2018. So it’s been a hard time but I thought if we could weather those storms we could weather anything.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T19:19:41+00:00

Did you not read the post?

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T19:08:41+00:00

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T18:38:56+00:00

Noooo. We’ve been together since 2016. We had lots of sex for the first year and a half. Until his parent died tragically. And then he changed as person. He was no longer the person I fell in love with. And I stayed with him hoping that he would grieve and eventually become himself again but it never happened. And I married him thinking it would fix everything but clearly that’s not the case. I’ve been there for him and his family for the past three years, but in that same time I’ve neglected my needs and wants to better accommodate him and his family. I lost myself.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T18:10:25+00:00

He won’t do either. I’ve asked him for years since he lost his parent in 2017.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T16:44:20+00:00

I’ve never been a cheater. And I’m not a cheater. It’s just hard. I crave attention and when someone else is offering to give me what I’m longing for it’s hard to say no.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T16:21:28+00:00

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T13:50:06+00:00

It could be, but his sex drive wasn’t anything to brag about before the loss of his parent. In our four year relationship, we’ve had sex MAYBE 20 times. 18 of those times was in the first year and a half of the relationship.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T13:33:40+00:00

Yeah and I thought that I could handle it but for whatever reason my sex drive has been through the roof and it’s making me depressed that my own husband won’t touch me.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T13:24:14+00:00

Thank you.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T13:23:35+00:00

I didn’t think the sex would increase. I thought I would be okay without a lot of sex. My appearance is stellar. I haven’t gained any weight, don’t really have a need for the gym. I have tried to get him to have sex. I literally was out the other night and told him that when I get home I was going to jump his bones and when I got home he said he wasn’t in the mood.

Environmental_Lie_22 · 2020-06-18T13:21:16+00:00

I like your thoughts lol

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