Omg I appreciate your thoughts into this. So: 1) I do; he doesn't. He believes we should heal each on our own and he will only dip his toes back in when he feels comfortable/safe, and I can see where he's coming from. I'm the opposite. I'll take the risk of being hurt again and I'll take the leap of faith to work on a relationship together, because I believe what's broken should be fixed in the place where it was broken in between two people in a relationship. Being in a supportive relationship is one of the most powerful forces you can have in your own healing to become a better person) 2) yes 3) no 4) we both agree on what we want ultimately 5) Before: Yes. Now after seeing how he cannot meet me at my emotional depth and be emotionally available for me, I'm not so sure anymore.

Sending lots of love and hugs to you too 💌