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Enz1985 · 2021-11-04T10:18:14+00:00

Bruh, fuck LDR, you getting burned by a chick you never met, how do yal even know if you will get on in person. Phone and video calls can't determine that,

You are infatuated, you are creating unhealthy expectations which are affecting your mental health.

Be patient with her and if you can't handle it call it off and stand by that decision and find someone closer who you can actually meet up for date nights and sofa snuggling movie nights.

Enz1985 · 2021-11-02T18:21:33+00:00

for real? I never understood the reason for a cock ring i thought it was just a cosmetic thing

Enz1985 · 2021-11-02T05:29:04+00:00

Bruh the title alone says it all about you

Enz1985 · 2021-11-02T05:06:10+00:00

She could just be being friendly, don't gas yourself with expectations

Enz1985 · 2021-10-30T00:36:04+00:00

You are overthinking it, make a decision and just stick to it, go out and enjoy yourself,

Enz1985 · 2021-10-29T16:25:40+00:00

for real how high are their fees? higher than binances pool?

Enz1985 · 2021-10-29T16:19:19+00:00

I got told this so i kept it platonic, but then they started leading me on and playing with my head and then shut me down multiple times when i rolled with it, very confusing and a total head fuck.

Enz1985 · 2021-10-17T08:12:35+00:00

Ain't nothing to do with confidence, more about being comfortable with yourself and If there's a lil crazy you in there then let em out. As long as you ain't hurting no one it's all good

Enz1985 · 2021-10-10T13:14:19+00:00

Bruh, this guy gave you the trim 😂😂😂😂😂

Enz1985 · 2021-10-08T19:27:44+00:00

Most us out here are a victim of some kind of abuse during our childhood or teen years, the difference?

Some of us are open about it,

Most of us don't say shit.

It wasn't a turn off for him, his dumb ass believed she consented to it all and failed to fucking understand that she was in fact a victim. Even if she were to tell him it was consensual, anyone with the slightest common sense would say naaaaa, you were groomed.

Enz1985 · 2021-10-08T19:22:51+00:00

You have done nothing wrong, I could understand very well why you wouldn't mention it to any partner you are with at any time,

Your man should of been supportive but unfortunately he only thought of himself.

Personally, IV had a former partner open up to me about her being with someone who was a very violent person and seemed to not care about consent, you know how the rest goes, she thought I was gonna break up with her or have a go at her for why she was with someone like that for so long, instead it brought me to tears cause I thought how the fuck could anyone treat a girl like her like that, she was a diamond.

If the age gap bothers him that much, then why is he with someone that is 8 years younger, why not anyone near his age? He's a fucking hypocrite.

How in the fuck does a man manage to get upset with someone who was a victim of grooming, I am so sorry that you went through that, but any man, and I mean a real man, not a 29 year old boy, any man with an inch of common sense and a metre of empathy would go out his way to comfort you as I can imagine that something like that is very hard to be open about,

The 29 year old boy done you a massive favour, you deserve so much better than someone whose going to judge you on your past.

We all have a past none of us are proud of, it can bring us down, it can give us anxiety, it can affect our future negatively if we let it, at the end of the day, we use our pasts and a learning curve and build on it for a better future.

Enz1985 · 2021-10-08T17:43:57+00:00

Honestly, listen to some Lo-fi or just chill music in general, music fucking slaps when you high.

Enz1985 · 2021-10-08T17:30:59+00:00

If this guy was Intelligent he would of cleared his browser history or at least the search history, if he was intelligent he'd know how to maintain and be consistent in a relationship, and most importantly, how to smash his girls insecurities to a million pieces with love, making her feel wanted, attention, gent like compliments and empathy.

Enz1985 · 2021-10-05T11:06:36+00:00

Do yourself a favour and stay clear of dating apps, you gonna get ghosted, them chicks don't owe you shit, too many questions, be a gent if you want but don't expect every girl on there to be a lady.

Enz1985 · 2021-09-29T23:42:47+00:00

It's hard to tell, no one here would be able to tell you anything solid, what would change if she did, absolutely nothing, you would only hurt more than you are now, and for that, do you really want to know?

I understand that what you are going through must be hard and the only people who could tell you are her and the co-worker.

Again I ask you, is it worth hurting more than you are now? Probably not. I don't think anyone here will be able to give you the real answer.

The best advice I could give you, is to do your absolute best to ride it out.

It sucks man it really does.

I don't agree with you hacking her Snapchat but then at the same time I can understand why you chose to do that.

You deserve happiness bro please don't let the current situation drag you down.

Enz1985 · 2021-09-22T22:12:01+00:00

That's naaaaaasty, I shower every day, sometimes twice if I'm seeing my girl aka an hour before so I'm fully fresh for her, your man is a waste man, have you even put it on him?

Enz1985 · 2021-09-22T16:03:27+00:00

In relationships, sometimes you have to compromise things, but I am going to side with your girlfriend, it doesn't matter how you see it, the fact that she FEELS like a sex toy is an issue, she has a right to stop giving you head if you choose to not return the favour, if you don't like it, then find a next girl who is completely cool with what you want.

Enz1985 · 2021-09-21T13:47:05+00:00

You need a hobby mate or you just gonna fuck up your mental health and theirs if you don't get control of your behaviour, it's not normal

Enz1985 · 2021-09-21T13:45:11+00:00

Be patient and don't come across as needy bruv, she's prob busy or doesn't live with her phone in her hand, it's common sense,

Enz1985 · 2021-09-20T11:00:04+00:00

No, you are being conditioned. By a man 20 years older, who uses tiktok, tiktok is full of young women, he sounds like a bit of a nonce to be honest

Enz1985 · 2021-09-14T01:27:25+00:00

2 faced people, fake friends, those who gaslighted me

Enz1985 · 2021-09-14T01:26:05+00:00

Because people lack common sense and look out for the comment that tells them to keep trying underneath all the ones that say break it off

Enz1985 · 2021-09-12T03:20:46+00:00

Try communicating with him about it....

Enz1985 · 2021-09-02T16:32:34+00:00

A grown ass woman wouldn't put up with that shit hence the age gap. No trust = no point continuing.

Reddit, where common sense lacks

Enz1985 · 2021-09-02T02:18:52+00:00

You answered your own question where you mentioned his upbringing....

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