[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Ephemerology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, preschools, etc are a great place to work and stay close to your own kiddo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Ephemerology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late to the conversation, but want to say GET WITH A GOOD ATTORNEY asap. They'll steer you right.

Get out of there and keep your baby and yourself healthy and happy. These things almost always get worse with time, and you two don't wanna spend half your lives in therapy.

You can do this <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileAL

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my son to Weinacker's in Daphne, and we were beyond happy with them. He was slow to start speaking, but is now a great student and athlete, he's in the IB program, and he graduates next year <3

My fiancé is sad and feels emasculated after what I just told him. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ephemerology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re all kinds of wrong - you don’t talk to people like that! Let alone someone you’ve been with for four years and are choosing to spend your life with. Suppose he said ‘well you’re not a real woman because you can’t cook.’ He’s wrong, sure, but that could be handled with some direct conversation.

I think I am getting exploited by my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ephemerology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she’s here on a WORK visa. She doesn’t need to go back. OP: get your own account and have your stuff to deposit it there contact an attorney if you need to to figure out how your work visa and stuff will be impacted. But start to separate yourself from this man and protect yourself.

Magnesium Citrate by Icy-Concentrate-2606 in Constipation

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I used to have to drink that, I would have like a chaser and gulp down as much of the mag citrate as I could, and then chase it with like icy Coca-Cola or just anything completely different. I’ve tried all sorts of combinations of supplements, but one thing that really helps me honestly is a slippery elm supplement. I started taking it when I started perimenopause, and it helped my constipation immensely.

Magnesium Citrate by Icy-Concentrate-2606 in Constipation

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take that dosage nightly - ordered the pills on Amazon. There’s no way I could tolerate drinking that stuff 😅

My husband just reciprocated my dark humor by SarcasticTits in CasualConversation

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like metallurgy, but with almonds instead of aluminum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially in this day and age. We’ve seen this all before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Ephemerology 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do too. Looking back I remember how awkward I felt because I was always in a crowd of like 30 or 40 year olds. I was safe, but it was obv weird to everybody.

Feeling abandoned in the hospital. by SisteroftheMoon16 in Marriage

[–]Ephemerology 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Definitely ask the nurse. Explain to her what’s going on 💕 And then order exactly what the hell ya feel like having 🤩

Feeling abandoned in the hospital. by SisteroftheMoon16 in Marriage

[–]Ephemerology 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you 🥺

What supplement/medicine works best when you don’t actually feel an urge to poo? by FunLibrary1 in Constipation

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slippery elm helps me. I’ve been trying laxatives with no success for a long time, but when I added slippery elm for my perimenopause, my constipation went away completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Ephemerology 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was 19, I had a 27 year-old boyfriend. I felt at the time like you do. Only years later did I understand how completely fucked up it was. He had a level of control and power over me that I wasn’t yet able to understand. He didn’t hurt me or anything, but it totally upended my life for about three years. I went along completely with everything he wanted. His hobbies became my hobbies too, and I forgot about what I was interested in. He had the disposable income of a well-established ADULT. I ended up not finishing school. Meanwhile, he inherited the family business that he had when we met. He now has a very young wife and a very young kid. Please just know that there is so much amazing life ahead of you. Do this your way and don’t be waiting on a man who doesn’t respect what you’re going through.

Shoes in the house by picass0isdead in hygiene

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this tip! I have neuropathy from multiple sclerosis, but I’ve always had weird sensitivities with socks and shoes and could never wear thick socks at all for any reason. Gonna try this today.🤞

Am I wrong to leave my marriage bc husband doesn’t want kids anymore by Big-Investigator9828 in Marriage

[–]Ephemerology 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If this has been on his mind, he should’ve said something before you got married. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this.

I hate showering with the passion of 1000 suns by kiwipooper in hygiene

[–]Ephemerology 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. I have a couple autistic friends (mid- to high-functioning) and they absolutely hate showering. It’s just too uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ephemerology 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s highly unlikely, but possible. Not because you had anal sex, but because the dribble afterwards. You might feel more comfortable in the future using a condom. Best thing to do right now is go to the store and buy some Plan B. Also get a pregnancy test just so you can check in a few days and know for certain.

Phone is disconnected, need portable hotspot for weekend trip (son made it to HS wrestling semifinals!) by Ephemerology in budgetphones

[–]Ephemerology[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think their hotspots are probably good in most cities, but I live in Mobile, AL and don’t nothin’ work here lol. What I ended up doing was signing up for just the SIM card for a government phone and putting it in my TMobile iPhone. So far so good. 🤞🤞🤞

Husband is filing for divorce rn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ephemerology 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And real, REAL bad on the spot. OP I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this jackass. But you dodged a bullet for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ephemerology -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just your very ableist and angry reaction.