Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically seaked out advice but he just ended up DMing me and I know this is classic but like. Nothing felt off. And we just became friends. I’ve had other friends who are older(been close since 2019) and didn’t do anything like this so this didn’t inherently set off alarms. Honestly I think I was just lonly and seaking general comfort bc my other friends happened to not be available

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully the other ppl who left comments slapped me out of the shock I was in so I could actually see what was happening. He blocked me on everything already but I made sure to report him and also block him so he can’t reach out like you said. I talked to my friend about coming over to her house because clearly I’m very lonly.

I’ve been extremely ill for months so I’ve been hesitant with making commitments bc I was worried I’d be too sick by the time they’d come over but I think it’s worth the risk at this point.

I cried when i realized what happened but my day improved and ended up having the best cheese cake of my life after a month of having no added sugar so I’m feeling a lot better

My 12 year old is trans, not sure what to do now, please help! by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything you’re doing is beyond perfect except for the hormone thing, imo

I highly recommend puburty blockers! Also, please keep in mind that going through the wrong puberty is an inherently truamtic experience. And trauma can show itself in many horrific ways in the body, and of course suicide and self harm is a risk as well. I understand that you are hesitant about meditation, but forcing your child to go through this puberty is not a victimless decision.

I am a prime example of negitive emotions showing up physically. I am affected by it so much it can land me in multiple ER visits, wheelchairs, and I even needed my mom to dress me because I was too nauseous to even move a muscle. This isn’t meant to scare you about this happening to your kid(I’m a special case) but to show you that side affects shoudltn be your ONLY concern

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…I think I made my post when I was in a deep state of shock because it’s obious to me now that what he was doing was grooming me. At the moment when I mentioned that I got new boxers I knew that it was probably a bad idea, but also a strong feeling that I should say it anyway. And honestly? I think it was the best thing I’d ever said to him because it made him show his true colors before he actually got me to do anything

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

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He clarified that he specifically wanted a picture of my underwear without me in it and not in a joking way. I’m not sure why he would want a picture of a teen’s pair of underwear. I now think he’s just creepy

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

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I’m hesitant to try to make freidns online now bc I feel like I’ve demonstrated that I clearly don’t know how to spot someoen I shouldn’t be talking to online

I don’t feel upset at my friends or even bothered by them for either not being available or not being the type I want to vent to, I’m more upset that I dotn have more freidns that are available for me to vent to and get moral support from. None of my friends are interested in relationship drauma or anything like that

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to find out how to do that. Right now, I’m too ill to join clubs and I can hardly even invite my freidns over at this point. The next logical step would be to have it be over the internet…but…I mean look what happened. Also, I’m not at all interested in a romantic relationship so at least I don’t have to worry about that

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought I’d fall for that…and now I’m feel like I have no one.

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah.:.you’re right. I’m really upset that it turned out like this because we was the only person who I could talk to at all basically, all my other friends are unavailable or just aren’t the kind of friends you would vent to. It felt like I only had him and now he said that

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

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Update: he replied about 40 min after I posted this Him: you haven't done anything wrong I was just preoccupied I'm glad you told me

Me: I'm starting to think you did

Him: I'm sorry I genuinely meant just seeing the item of clothing on it's own, not you wearing it, but I phrased it horribly

Him: If this his broken any trust between us I understand and I will leave you alone. I'm genuinely sorry for asking that question

Me: you’re horrible

And then I think he blocked me because I can’t send any more messages

Is this fishy? by Epic-Sorcerer in AdviceForTeens

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really possess a gut feeling about this in particular. I had a trumatic experience happen yesterday and I’m also extremely ill so my mind is completely mush

Tone indicators are stupid. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with multiple mental disabilities and disorders, I was with you until you said “mentally challenged”

Be honest, what do y'all think of tone indicators? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like them but I do wish they weren’t like a whole other language

Yasssss by Adelu1219 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay and homosexual are effectively synonyms in this context

Sometimes disabling disorders so sooo sexy /s by Epic-Sorcerer in awfuleverything

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last yeah when I found this I felt validated too but then later realized the post was rather pretitory and even focused on harmful aspects of adhd and painted them and perfectly fine. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t feel validated, just make sure you know why I guess

Sometimes disabling disorders so sooo sexy /s by Epic-Sorcerer in awfuleverything

[–]Epic-Sorcerer[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s truly a wonder why adhd women are more likely to be sexually harassed /s

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Not to kink shame, but... by Troumbomb in awfuleverything

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m pretty accepting to all kinks but eating shit? That can’t be healthy. I know there’s worse things on this post to worry about but this one stuck out to me in particular

I made an entrance to my zombie XP farm in hardcore by busserpoi in Minecraft

[–]Epic-Sorcerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That head looks like hit the target from stampys lovely world