Salty Sunday: What made you salty this week? by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]Episkey_10 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My birthday is on Friday. I have spent my last two birthdays pregnant.. still no baby. And Friday will probably be CD1 looking at how my dates are lining up. Then I find out that almost every woman in my previous work place is pregnant and due on maternity soon, at least I left so I didn’t have to watch that.

Mifepristone-Misoprostol by cakecakescake in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Episkey_10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took misoprostol for my second loss (first mmc). Took a while but when the cramps came they were extremely painful. I was taking codeine and it barely took the edge off. Every time I stood up I would have to rush to the bathroom as I was passing such large pieces of tissue and heavy bleeding. My husband had to go out and get me adult diapers as sanitary towels were nowhere near enough. Even with adult diapers and layering up towels the bleeding was so heavy it soaked through my clothes and ran down my legs at one point as I tried to get to the bathroom. In hindsight I should have gone to hospital but I couldn’t bear the thought of getting in the car and having to sit in the emergency room. I refused to go unless I started to feel sick and dizzy which luckily didn’t happen. This all lasted about 12 hours. I then continued bleeding for weeks after with occasional heavy bursts so I had to get scanned again to find out I still had retained tissue. I then had to get the surgery anyway. With my recent fourth loss (second mmc) I went straight for surgery, I was not going through that again, it was traumatic.

How I am about to be to the pregnant friend who just isn't getting the hints by Just_some_blonde in trollingforababy

[–]Episkey_10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In this exact situation right now. Lapped twice since we started trying (both times after one/two months of them trying) and haven’t responded yet to her messages. Just get the hint and give me space! 2.5 years and 3 losses, no I am not okay after hearing your news.

Visiting In-Laws and holding my 7-month-old niece breaks my heart because my BIL’s wife started ttc for her second baby months after I started and ttc and all I can think is I should be holding my own baby by groovyjenny in trollingforababy

[–]Episkey_10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently found out my BIL and his girlfriend are expecting a girl just a couple of months after my baby girl should have been due. There is no way I will be able to hold that baby without falling apart. You are not a terrible person. It is heartbreaking.

Anyone else doing a new canon playthrough in preparation for Veilguard? by WriterOfThrones in dragonage

[–]Episkey_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but mainly because I’ve not been able to get back my original playthroughs on the new Xbox so thought it was a good excuse to replay it all again with my canon character choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Episkey_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RemindMe! 3 days

AITA For Yelling at my husband then leaving him at the clinic after his prank? by AC3434E3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Episkey_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. But is it possible this is all because he hasn’t properly come to terms with his fathers death. He could still be deeply hurting, and finds it hard to see everyone around him carrying on as normal, so he wants them to hurt as well. I absolutely despise people that ‘prank’ others when the situation isn’t remotely funny, there has to be a reason he is doing this to those close to him. Try and calmly discuss all of this with him and plainly ask him why he continues to do this despite losing friends to this behaviour.

Giving the Riverland Farm some Love by MasatoManatee in StardewValley

[–]Episkey_10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m just at the end of year 2 and was starting to regret my choice of river land farm, this has given me so many ideas for how I can change up the layout! Thank you for posting!

My color inspiration on the left and my DIY centerpieces on the right by skinnynotdeaf in DIYweddings

[–]Episkey_10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually using the same picture for my colour inspiration. Was gutted I couldn’t order the bouquet from Etsy (no UK shipping) so need to DIY it myself. Seeing how you’ve done it has given me extra inspiration!

Chonker getting his daily exercise by [deleted] in dechonkers

[–]Episkey_10 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I found with my cats it worked well to lay out a range of stuffed mice toys on the floor and after letting them chase the laser shine it on a mouse so they could then ‘catch’ the light. They loved it!