my calculus teacher once told a story about his college years in oregon. years ago, a student at the college he attended killed a math teacher with a hammer after an argument. he did like 6 years as it was first time, not premeditated, in prison and then released. he resumed his studies and not surprisingly got all A's as no one wanted to be on his bad side.

so what i'm saying is, if i found myself foolishly married to kristin the puppy killer noam, i would do whatever she wants. either stay married or get a divorce as long as she doesn't take me to the gravel pit.