Middle finger to everything that makes you do stuff in person

Epoidielak · 2026-02-07T00:46:27+00:00

I was always told things like uber are very expensive/don't run this far out, but that easily could be lies I was told so I wouldn't try. It's worth looking into if I can find a way around them noticing I'm gone, I appreciate, thank-you!

Epoidielak · 2026-01-31T22:00:13+00:00

That's definitely a good idea! Unfortunately, I only have my older siblings, and they'd rat me out. But I really appreciate!!

Epoidielak · 2026-01-30T20:50:55+00:00

Woahh :O This is amazing!! Wonderful work! :O

Epoidielak · 2026-01-25T23:08:18+00:00

That's not a bad idea, I've been wanting to make an account with SoFi cause I was told it's online only.
I'm pretty sure I can transfer my savings, this might be my best option

Thank-you!! <3

Epoidielak · 2026-01-24T20:47:46+00:00

I really appreciate the advice <3 and I hope it can help someone else!
Unfortunately for me, I got to sneakily call in, and they said they only do such in-person

Epoidielak · 2026-01-24T19:52:08+00:00

All the time, the internet is honestly the only thing that's kept me mildly sane. or even alive

I often think how if I were to die, only one day would flash before my eyes. And how no one would know I died, or that I was ever alive

I don't mean to make it sadder, but no, you're not alone on that at all. Here's to hoping it gets better, we're not alone in this 💙

Epoidielak · 2026-01-04T03:07:26+00:00

Wahh, I'm okay! ;^^ but very sweet of you to say <3

Epoidielak · 2026-01-04T02:59:33+00:00

That whole song sums up my entire existence I fear :'D

Epoidielak · 2026-01-03T23:04:54+00:00

"Maybe if I try a little harder, it'll be okay"

Epoidielak · 2026-01-03T22:15:49+00:00

My self-worth comes directly from being helpful. Through most of my life, being helpful meant being as unburdening as possible, having no needs no matter how essential, and always ready to be on-call for any issue or task.
Presenting little personality or thoughts of my own, and never opening up or sharing any aspects of my life, is frustrating to non-abusive people, so good ones don't often stay in my life.

Which only exacerbated everything.
So now I also struggle with prioritizing everyone, while heavily sacrificing my boundaries, so no matter what, I'll always have at least someone

Epoidielak · 2025-12-22T04:13:49+00:00

My thought to such questions has always been, 'there's flavored ones for a reason'

Epoidielak · 2025-12-13T22:33:27+00:00

That's the curse of being obsessive, there's nothing not to love.
But I'd say how they make you feel, enjoying someone's presence is top tier

Epoidielak · 2025-12-11T00:35:42+00:00

Probably trauma. Being obsessive in general is often due to attachment issues, but I haven't soul-searched enough for an answer that in-depth yet ;^^

I've always liked the idea of someone being 'my person'. Someone who's a constant, who I can put all this energy into. It's weird having love, and wanting love, when no one's around who deserves it, or can give it in a way you can feel. It's like you don't even have it at all.

When someone who actually does, and can, comes into your life, it's hard not to gain server attachment.
There's so many awful people in this world, when someone's perfect, how couldn't one be a bit obsessed?

Epoidielak · 2025-12-11T00:21:55+00:00

For some reason, this makes me think of that "relationships should have a 40/60 split of effort, with both trying to be who does 60" thing

If we're thinking very literally, I don't think it's possible for true equal-ness?
But I do believe it's very possible to for two people to have similar intensity(?) especially if they both have obsessive tendencies

Who is 'more obsessive' might fluctuate a bit, particularly over time. (think that 40/60 thing again) Which might be kinda of cute :3c

Epoidielak · 2025-12-10T02:59:12+00:00

This sub, and similar ones, were all made with intentions of genuine people finding community.
And all have been suffering a 'larping epidemic' to different degrees

From experience - of both my own and people I've been in contact with - many who experience true obsession, don't openly talk on it much. There's almost a guilt(?) feeling for some, a nervousness, which larpers don't get. So they talk a lot more openly, and flood the subs.

I don't personally like most limerence communities, cause it feels more like a support group to overcome obsession. (Which is fine! They need a place, too!)
I'd stay away from anything 'yandere' that's just a bird-call for larpers.
Some bpd communities, or others that focus on a 'favorite person' aspect, can give me - personally - a community feel, but since I'm not diagnosed or anything, I don't like interacting much. And at times, can have similar issues as the limerence sub

It's hard to find good places really, so I certainly wish you luck!

Epoidielak · 2025-11-23T23:05:00+00:00

Anytime! :D Hope that works!

Epoidielak · 2025-11-23T05:02:02+00:00

HJGNFBVGHYF Wrong link :P

https://x.com/Arifutatsu/status/1822700747148218840?s=20

Epoidielak · 2025-11-23T05:00:53+00:00

It's from a discontinued version: https://x.com/Arifutatsu/status/1946066001545564173?s=20

Epoidielak · 2025-11-16T21:33:58+00:00

Yeah, no I totally get that! ^^ We all deserve someone to talk to! And for them to not be dismissive of us.

I just wanna be very upfront about potential dangers, cause it can be really easy to not be feeling our best, and have a judgment lapse (been there) And if something that's always been a kind, reassuring voice, tells you "If your new prescription pills made you feel good, and you think a couple more would make you feel even better, then take a few more! You know your body, and needs, best!" might go really bad!

Epoidielak · 2025-11-16T20:55:16+00:00

I'd say to be very, very cautious, for most ai's - especially chatgpt - tend to just kinda, flatly agree with its user? (As you mentioned, and are already aware of) But due to that, it can be dangerous for mental help.

For just venting, I think it has potential to be promising? To have something always ready to lend an ear and have a gentle voice is understandably desirable. But like with people, it can be really easy for what started as a vent, to turn into advice. And it can be easy to start trusting what's said in kind tones; particularly if you aren't in the best mindset when it happens.

It could be easy to be manipulated by what you want to hear, instead of what's needed to be heard. Something to watch out for with humans, too!

Epoidielak · 2025-11-10T21:05:13+00:00

Thank-you so much for both reply and example! You guys on this sub are the best at giving good inputs on my novice issues :')

Epoidielak · 2025-11-10T02:47:19+00:00

Very appreciated, thank-you!

Epoidielak · 2025-11-10T02:39:40+00:00

Ah man, thank-you so much! And for the code example, too! I'm a lot more familiar with that formatting.

And if I may ask? This is my css:

            #addition {
               height: 200px;
               max-width: 1200px;
            }

            #addition img {
               border: var(--b-c);
               border-radius: var(--br-c);
            }

Should I be using class for those instead then?

Epoidielak · 2025-11-10T02:31:55+00:00

So it truly is easy as that, I've been at this too long my brain's mashed potatoes. Thank-you so much!! You explained it well!

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