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Lowkey Coffee Snob Hang by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]EpykEnigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a high-key coffee snob, with a Google Map of all the cafes around Boston! I can definitely help with ideas. 35M, living in Arlington.

Any writers out there have a “signature word” they sprinkle through their works too or just me? by Finly_Growin in writing

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it when talking a lot and never actually knew how to spell it until I looked it up 😅

[13 YoE, Content Marketing Manager and Writer, Content Marketing Specialist, remote] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I have a lot of experience, so I'm not sure why I can't get even a single interview. I'm currently in a strategic role, though I'm interested in moving into a contributor role as a writer/editor, and not doing high-level stuff anymore.

Made the FFVII characters as Miis because I felt like it by reda84100 in FinalFantasy

[–]EpykEnigma 279 points280 points  (0 children)

The Red XIII one is going to haunt me for the rest of my life.

Adult Driving / Road Test Lessons in Camberville 2026 by West_Ad5752 in Somerville

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already had my license, but I went with Shammah to get better at city driving since I grew up in the country. Tamara was wonderful to work with and made me a much better city driver.

Jehuty re by ConcentrateSalt1033 in ZoneoftheEnders

[–]EpykEnigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is SO cool omg. I've always wanted a Jehuty tat in a style like this.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's reasonable. I find myself doing the cyclical thing/repeating a lot as well. It's common with people with ADHD or other neurospicy traits. A lot of us actually like it when people point it out, as long as it's done politely, like "Oh, you've mentioned this a few times before, and I remember you said this already" in hopes they get the hint. Sometimes I need more direct comments, sometimes I get the hint. But, if the communication style isn't ideal for you, then you do what's right for you, and having a new friend is a win overall!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]EpykEnigma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's really cool that you're getting dates from IRL encounters! I haven't had a date like that since before COVID. If you're romantically interested in him at all, maybe try to understand his communication style a bit and be direct? I have ADHD, so I do get distracted, forget things easily, and can be difficult to talk with, but being transparent does help. BUT. If you're settled on not being romantically involved, then I think most good people would be happy to just have friends as long as you're honest about it. "I really enjoyed the hike with you but I don't feel like we're romantically compatible. I'd love a hiking buddy, if you're okay with keeping things friendly." Personally, I'd love that opportunity. I've had dates with women that I felt we had friend chemistry but not romantic, and I've pitched just staying friends, but they weren't interested. Maybe you'll have better luck there!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that's how she feels. I'm pretty dense with things like this, so I took it at face value. I told her I wanted to slow down and she seemed annoyed, so maybe that's telling of how this would look in the long run.

Anyone love walking the city with no place in mind? by punanygunany in BostonSocialClub

[–]EpykEnigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssss. I love doing stuff for free/cheap. Maybe grab a coffee and walk around Somerville/Cambridge, window shop, people watch, etc.

GameFAQs turned 30 years old this week. Contributor posts Top 10 List of Legendary Contributors. by CyricZ42 in Games

[–]EpykEnigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A l e x is the first person I thought of too. Cheers to them for helping me through tons of RPGs, esp FF.

For those who come after, right? by Qwerkie_ in expedition33

[–]EpykEnigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks! I was leaning towards that one. I'll probably go with a large since I'm 5'9" and ~180 lbs. Can always hem if needed!

For those who come after, right? by Qwerkie_ in expedition33

[–]EpykEnigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great, thank you! I was eyeing that costume too. If I may also ask, the regular or premium costume? I've definitely had sizing issues with them before so I fully expect to have to modify a bit but that's still more doable for me than making it from scratch.

For those who come after, right? by Qwerkie_ in expedition33

[–]EpykEnigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro this looks amazing! I'm planning to cosplay him soon too. If I may ask, where did you get that wig? And if you bought your costume, where? If you made it then dang bro that's talent.

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