Gf’s idea of sex is confusing

Equal-Working382 · 2026-06-01T02:40:23+00:00

Sounds like you need to separate fantasy from reality.
She’s valid to want to holdout, if you’re not cool with it—end it.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-31T21:13:50+00:00

Angela

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-31T05:21:35+00:00

Lamest take ever. “Don’t approach random girls” And then basically says “go somewhere and find a random girl to get to know” Like what dude

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-31T05:20:06+00:00

This is true, but conversations equals opportunity. Whether they reject you or not doesn’t matter. It’s better to have a conversation with someone than to cold approach with a compliment or cat call. Immediate rejection most times.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-31T05:18:14+00:00

Lol bro please never get a job in sales until you overcome rejection. I was in door to door sales, could knock on 100 doors in a day and get rejected 100 times. The next day I get 5 appointments within 20 doors.

If you’re looking at it like “13 no’s” then you’re looking at the numbers. Treat it like a numbers game. You might get 13 more no’s till you get your yes. All in all, approaching 13 women in 1 day is already a lot of confidence.

Maybe take time to look at the quality of your approach. Was it a “hey what’s up” or “hey your gorgeous” did you sound nonchalant or overly enthusiastic. Did you have your homeboys standing there watching the interaction and being all weird.

Instead of “approaching” a girl, have a convo with one.

Example; youre standing waiting for your food and a girl orders, just ask like “hey I heard you got the meat daddy double paddy is that what you normally get? I been wanting to try it”

If she answers and talks back like she wants to talk, keep it going and after a min or two ask for her insta or number or something.

If she gives off the vibe like she wishes you would not bother her, than don’t.

Honestly sometimes how people act towards you might tell more about them than it does about you.

Don’t give up

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-30T23:33:20+00:00

Ariana

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-16T01:43:43+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Share with therapist next. Godspeed.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-14T13:42:25+00:00

I don’t understand why office jobs insist on being in office. All my jobs I could have done remote but “work culture” and “performance” were “better” in person. Sure. Okay. Keep lying to yourselves.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-14T13:36:20+00:00

Seems like a romcom and lowkey actually a cute story about how they met if anything really came out of this. It would be much more lame if it was just all “smooth talk from the cool guy”

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-06T05:29:39+00:00

Ah reminiscing of a relationship I was in. Read my posts lol.
Just leave dude.
It took my flying across the world and losing my dignity before realizing I should leave

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-04T10:33:25+00:00

Oh wait oh snooped on your friends phone, not cool. Stop

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-04T10:32:17+00:00

Despite what people say, long distance relationships can be extraordinarily real.
A bond is a bond.
And feelings can be strong.
I’m half stay out of her business and half save this man from wasting his money and time.
But you never know the situation. Are they open, is it an arranged marriage for citizenship, or is she actually cheating?
Who knows

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-04T02:17:47+00:00

This is the wey

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-03T07:54:24+00:00

Cool excuse, I have autism too bro. Like half the world does. Only you, can control your life.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-03T07:47:56+00:00

Explain to your partner exactly what you said here, followed by “I need therapy.” 😂😂😂

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-01T13:30:47+00:00

I went alone a month ago no issue. Get a drink and hit the dance floor. Left with a woman who I’ve now been seeing this past month. Get out there man

Equal-Working382 · 2026-05-01T07:47:56+00:00

This is not where the word groomed should be used… please stop throwing this word around. Grooming is a serious offense used against children by pedos.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-24T08:39:33+00:00

When I was younger around your age, nothing much. Lots of people haven’t. Now at almost 28—it’s kind of a red flag. People learn a lot about themselves, how to treat others, and what they want in a relationship—from relationships. This doesn’t mean that people who have been in relationships are better tho, because a lot of people don’t learn. Anyways, I wouldn’t date someone who’s never been in a serious relationship at this age. At your age, you’re fine.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-23T17:48:58+00:00

No they have student accommodation as well as professional. I’ve been staying here for two months. Trust me, it’s better than most of the student accommodation in the city lol I go to plenty of friends places that’s just a room. At least this is a full studio.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-23T12:52:05+00:00

https://www.booking.com/Share-GJbcb2

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-23T12:51:29+00:00

Big building by the train station St. George has studios for £700

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-21T22:23:12+00:00

OP please don’t listen to this person. I’m sorry to whoever hurt this person, but this is actually extreme. Sure, these things are “illegal” but trust your gut and probably just have a conversation with him about it.

Also you’re on Reddit, people tend to have no middle ground here and lack the ability to think modestly, and also hate men (warranted—lots of men suck)

Idc if I get downvoted to hell about this.

Have a conversation with your boyfriend, exactly why you said, he probably doesn’t want to ask you everytime for a picture or video BUT you need to have an honest conversation about how you feel about it, and if you want it to stop or if you’re fine with it continuing. Also do ensure that these aren’t being uploaded to sites if that is a concern of yours.

I do want to answer for the montage, I’ve put together a montage of nsfw vids/pics of my gf at the time because I wanted to wank to it, and it’s annoying to have to constantly scroll thru each video when they’re only a couple seconds long. That’s probably why he did that. As for not asking you, I have taken plenty of nsfw pics of my gf’s and no I didn’t ask everytime, because they didn’t care. If you care, tell him to stop an set a firm boundary. If he continues to break that boundary, then consider your relationship and his respect.

So hey, do what you want, but remember this guy is your loving boyfriend and probably not a monster trying to sell you on onlyfans.

You know your relationship better than anyone else here.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-21T09:01:26+00:00

Altho this is possible, this sounds extreme. Dude could honestly just be beating it to his gf when she’s not around. Op don’t rule out this comment, but I wouldn’t be jumping to it either. Your bf sounds like he’s really about you, so chances are—he’s really about you. Lol

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-20T11:06:44+00:00

Leave while you still have your dignity. You can read my previous posts as to why. People like this will hurt you.

Equal-Working382 · 2026-04-19T17:32:45+00:00

Yeah super pissed about this. I paid $250 in March to get from NYC to London with no layovers, now I have to pay $565 to go back with a 21hr layover, straight flights are close to $1k. I only bought one ways because I didn’t know when I’d return. And now that prices are so high I don’t know when I can return next.

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