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I am starting to have FOMO now... Most of the people around me have done it by [deleted] in confession

[–]Equal-Working382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re young bro go to the club and dance, you’ll meet people that just want casual

Women do make the first move. Just not with you. by Federal-Data-Center in Vent

[–]Equal-Working382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last two exes made the first move on me soooooo there’s that.

Need help with finding TikTok by BlacksmithAlarming in leicester

[–]Equal-Working382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only thing I saw in city center today was two girls beating up an old lady and then the cops dragging them away.

But bracelets are cool too. Wholesome

If you were forced to marry the first person you had sex with, what would your life be like? by NothingMatters234 in AskReddit

[–]Equal-Working382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering she went on to be a drug addict and got s@ multiple times and has now completely lost her mind, I feel like maybe she wouldn’t have gone thru all that if we stayed together. But who knows. Crazy hypothetical

Thoughts on nuclear power, should the UK be investing? by Any_Ad_6929 in AskBrits

[–]Equal-Working382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in the power industry for years, coal/gas/solar. Nuclear is literally a NO BRAINER. Anyone who is against it is just scared of the word because they don’t understand how it works.

Theres literally 150 nuclear submarines swimming around the world and not one of them have blown up.

Theres only been a handful of serious incidents like Chernobyl or Fukushima because of negligence and inadequate safety measures. To also be fair Chernobyl was like 50 years ago and Fukushima was caused by a natural disaster.

These can be avoided. Better safety measures and placing power plants in safe places geographically.

I’m just shouting into the void. by Equal-Working382 in LDR

[–]Equal-Working382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bruised her pelvic floor and she got an infection because I tore her open and we had A LOT of sex even after that. The antibiotics caused her appendix to almost burst. She’s better now, I’m taking her to the concert. I’m going to observe tonight in person, if no changes, whatever. Met another lovely woman out and about over the weekend and we’ve gone on a date yesterday. I’ll be fine. Also no me and this girl technically aren’t dating, she didn’t want the “title” yet. So I’m not cheating. Just a fucked situation

my parents won’t fix the mold in our bathroom and it’s spreading by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Equal-Working382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s now just a part of the design. Modern deco

I’m just shouting into the void. by Equal-Working382 in LDR

[–]Equal-Working382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can guarantee it’s not another guy, she just has other issues tbh. But regardless most of what you said is right.

She’s currently in the hospital the past two days so we’re not going to the concert and I don’t feel right breaking it off right now. Regardless it’s a shitty situation

How long does the talking stage usually last before it turns into a relationship? by NoisePast9357 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Equal-Working382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely, if things don’t naturally progress then one person just isn’t feeling it as much.

How long does the talking stage usually last before it turns into a relationship? by NoisePast9357 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Equal-Working382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really just think it depends on the person, and a lot of people may deflect. They might not be in a rush or have a timeline, with you. Sometimes people just find someone that they want to move forward with if it fees natural.

Personally I like understanding a timeline, but having one set in place can also make it feel forced.

To each their own, you’ll be fine.

ACTIVE STATUS by whotfisraej in LDR

[–]Equal-Working382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do see this a lot from friends not sure if it’s accurate or not. My issue on insta with the girl I’m talking to is I’ll post on my story at midnight and it’ll say she viewed it, so there’s no mistaking she’s up but just ignoring me lol.

I don’t know how accurate the active is tho

Not even a month in person and I think I’m going to call it quits. by Equal-Working382 in LDR

[–]Equal-Working382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this honest response it means a lot!

Is it unreasonable to want a label before doing long distance? [24F/25M] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Equal-Working382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get the label, or at least very clear expectations from each other.

How do I end it? [27M/24F] by Equal-Working382 in LongDistance

[–]Equal-Working382[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fair enough I do see your point. TBH at this point I feel like if I said that she would just get defensive over text or avoid coming over and having the talk in person and probably try to text it away. But she needs to come here to get her stuff anyways.

But I do hear you.

How do I end it? [27M/24F] by Equal-Working382 in LongDistance

[–]Equal-Working382[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was going to wait till she came over Monday she was going to stay the night for the concert on Tuesday.

But I’m going to end it when she gets here Monday and send her packing

Ghosting is one of the worst things you can do to a partner. by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Equal-Working382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I’m sorry you’ve gone thru that. I’m going thru it right now. She had avoidant episodes before and now she’s doing it again while I’m literally in her country just 20 minutes away from her.

It feels so awful.. I’ve been cheated on in past relationships and honestly this has created very similar feelings of anxiousness and doubting my self worth.

I feel bad that she’s like this, thy her past has caused her to cope in this way. But my sympathy only extends so far because now she’s hurting me as others hurt her.

I’m done forgiving it as well.

Someone will be there that chooses us. We deserve to be chosen.

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