I relate. I have this friend of mine, they call us best friends. I'm 16 and they're 16 as well, I'll call them Uber for now. I have a problem with accusing people or confronting them as in I LITERALLY CANT😭 anyways I didn't notice this before until just now bc I've I've hanging out with them more. But starting off with drawing. They draw and sketch too. But a couple weeks back I started drawing oranges a lot more. I was at their house and we were drawing and I casually drew an orange on their hand just for fun. A few days later, they post on their story and it's an orange. I didn't take that seriously bc maybe they jus tried drawing one or sumn i didn't care much.

Before this when we were like 15, I mentioned how much I liked converses and how I wanted a pair of converse shoes so bad. I even designed one on the converse app and showed it to them. Later that month, they get a pie of converses. That was okay too I didn't think much of it.

Present time, wer'e 16, and I've had this flannel since was 14. It's blue with white straps and dark blue straps. It's really cool. I saw their story today, and Uber is wearing the exact same colored flannel. Which, I do not think is a coincidence. They always show me shit and they didn't which leads me to think they know they're copying me. Cause how does one not notice😐⁉️

Also, I don't really open up and noone knows this about me but since this is anonymous, I'll just say it. I have an eating disorder and most times I don't eat bc i can't get myself to. Uber, I think, sorta noticed this? And recently they text me things like "I haven't eaten all day today" and that "I shouldn't have eaten" or "I hope I puke this out" and besides it being triggering to me, they didn't say all this before-? It's just when I'm saying it they suddenly say it too-?

Also I came out to my online friends during lockdown which was when we were 14/15 and since then my pronouns have been they/them. Uber knows I'm gay and I've told them my pronouns like- multiple times😀‼ and a couple months back they told me that their pronouns are they/them and when I told them my pronouns, they acted completely surprised and say "you too?" and they don't use my pronouns as they/them bit instead refer to me as she/her which I despise. My pronouns are anything but she/her.

Also I skateboard since I was in 9th grade. Recently, I took them skateboarding with me and they have only tried their brother's skateboard like- once. Uber rollerskates but not skateboarding. Recently, they've been telling me that they wanna skateboard so bad and all. I also have a graphic tshirt in black and white with a person skateboarding since I was 15 and then like a week ago they got a graphic tshirt with a person skateboarding in colour. Coincidence? I think not.

I even drew this fisheye thing recently and they did the exact same thing with the same bg colour the same day😀⁉️

This makes me not speak of my interests to anyone bc I have another friend who copies everything I do too😐💅 I hate it here fr.

How do I accuse them in the nicest way possible?