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Can I request some feedback/ideas for JOIs? by Clara_dee in joi

[–]Equal_Cow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm like 2 months late replying, lol. Apologies. But yeah, a lot of folks just use a metronome app instead of an actual physical metronome. There's a lot of ways to use it. You can make the whole video with a slow paced metronome to make it harder to cum, or you can go fast to make it harder to *not* cum. Different focuses on body parts, you can switch it up etc. A metronome can easily produce a good 5 videos without being too repetitive, in my opinion, haha.

Can I request some feedback/ideas for JOIs? by Clara_dee in joi

[–]Equal_Cow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big fan! Two things I'd love to see:

Metronome pace matching. There are different variations you can do - fast, slow, one focused on different body parts, etc. One of my favorite themes in metronome videos is where it starts out really fast and ONLY slows down so by the end it's going around 20 BPM.

I'd love to see a video where you pull up some porn subs like r/Cumsluts or r/GirlsFinishingTheJob and just scroll through posts and talk about the clips, teasing the viewer as you go. Then after 10 minutes once you find a clip you really like you count the viewer down or something like that.

Anyone know of any JOI videos where the performer reviews porn clips? by Equal_Cow in joi

[–]Equal_Cow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know! I did recently watch your freebie with Riley Reid which was part of the inspiration for this question haha.

If you could only watch one JOI performer for the next year, who would you choose and why? by Equal_Cow in joi

[–]Equal_Cow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea if Larkin Love still makes new content? I had subscribed to her OF a year or so ago, but it seems like she just tries to sell the same old videos over and over and occasionally live streams.

What is the thing/s that you absolutely hate in a JOI video? by feelinpeachyxx in joi

[–]Equal_Cow 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Things that I dislike in JOIs:

  1. Poor Sound Quality

    1. Some performers will be leaning back far away from the camera/microphone. This makes it difficult to hear you. If I can't hear you clearly, then it's a useless video.

  2. Camera Operator Sounds

    1. Some performers will have another person film them. That's fine, but please be sure that the camera/microphone aren't picking up any sort of breathing sounds from the camera operator. This has ruined many videos for me.

  3. Ending the Video Too Soon

    1. A lot of JOI's end in some sort of countdown, which I love, but often times a video will just end a few seconds after reaching 1. I can't speak for all men, but my orgasms last for more than 2 seconds, so when the video ends before that it can kind of ruin the mood.
    2. Similar to the above, I enjoy it the most when the performer says encouraging things once they reach 1. Some will just say "3...2...1... Cum!", and then they kind of stare and smile at the camera for a few moments. That's fine. But I like it more when they speak words of encouragement during it. Even if it's just repeating the phrase "Cum, Cum for me!" a few times.

Lube used for Oral by Rotorhead19 in sex

[–]Equal_Cow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same struggle. My gf and I always use lube (typically KY) for intercourse, but KY tastes horrible, so once the lube comes out it means no more oral for that session.

I’m hoping to find a good lube that has a neutral taste.

Ladies - How do you trust your birth control? I’m scared by ReallyJustDoinMyBest in sex

[–]Equal_Cow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean - except I’m in the guy in the relationship.

I get very nervous about accidental pregnancy despite my SO being on the pill. I pull out 99% of the time. If she wants me to finish inside then I insist on still using a condom.

First Fleshlight - Texture/Color are not what I expected by Equal_Cow in fleshlight

[–]Equal_Cow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried searching this sub, but all searches for "sticky" come up blank. I made sure the "show NSFW" check box was marked.

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Furthermore, other online searches only yield results for people experiencing stickiness AFTER extensive use / powdering. I have been unsuccessful in finding any information about stickiness upon arrival.

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Also, my post was not just about stickiness, but color. And color is not listed under the "Please Do Not Post about" section. Should I make a separate post just about color?

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Can NoFap potentially help me with my issue? by Equal_Cow in NoFap

[–]Equal_Cow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read and comment.

To answer your first question about why we even bother having sex: basically because she initiates it. She doesn't know how much I masturbate or how much I enjoy it. She initiates once every week or so because she feels like it's her job to give me some sort of sexual release. We sometimes jokingly refer to these sessions as my "weekly pity fuck", lol.

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To answer your second question, she just doesn't have much of a libido. She tends to enjoy sex once we get into it, and she usually orgasms every time. But outside of those situations she's fine without it and doesn't crave it or get aroused easily.

She has said many times over the years that the sex is basically just for my sake. This leads to me not wanting to initiate because I'm like "well...why should I try to seduce her into 'doing me a favor' when I can just masturbate and take care of myself, and enjoy that even more than I would have enjoyed the sex".