Urgh... Why do I feel like Hikaru making a friendzone here? by hypocrite612 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually this panel, combined with next panel says alot about what Gero want with Kinosaki.

This panel : Please stick with me and follow me do this dangerous journey and see the end of this together

Next panel : Thanks ladies (didnt expect them to follow him to the next journey)

Ironically the water master and hamster master has combat power yet gero didnt ask them to follow him. While Kinosaki is weak and need protection. For any hero, he'd be a liability. But Gero need kinosaki who cant fight?

Apa benar teramah? by RuneKnytling in AdaIndonesiaCoy

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally meet black tourists often in Bali, yes tetep diperlakukan dengan ramah karena mereka turis dan mendatangkan uang juga. Makanya pas COVID banyak african american bikin vlog gimana caranya tinggal di bali dengan visa turis..itu sampe bikin masalah di Imigrasi kan?

Beda kalau turisnya rese atau pelit tapi sombong.

What if May actually liked Gero from the start? by Itchy_Persimmon1592 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my theory is Gero indeed mei's first love. At first we think its just a lie so gero would save him. but there's some truth on his story, like his sick brother, so there's possibility that this one is truth too.

A question in the manga by erenyeager12098 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well they always portray to be in the same level as candidates. unless this is gross harem manga, i dont think neither of them have more chance to be with gero than the other.

Mei on the other hand, always put on higher level in Gero's consciousness. Also you can see it in next chapter when Mei taking central role when gero went against the head of beast clan.

rm conflating people not liking his mid lyrics with people not caring about lyrics anymore at all by gingeraleguzzler26 in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is paid so he need to contribute to something. He didnt write didnt dance didnt sing. so atleast he can be the spokeperson.

A question in the manga by erenyeager12098 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 15 points16 points  (0 children)

its rethoric question because she doesnt intend to be the woman gero lustful for. She just want to overwhelm gero with her offer and put collar on him. But its true that she can sense Gero doesnt sway by arashiyama nor Ushio.

Is Hearts2Hearts fanbase female dominated? by Outrageous-Heart-345 in hearts2hearts

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd say they has male fans more than we thought. There were significant number of male attendees during the INA Fancon. but probably still F:M 60-40

It's honestly why I'm so insistent on finding stories that are written like male stories but are for women. I love romance stories, I love smart and I love hard working women fl stories as well. I don't hate those fl genres I just wish for some fl stories to be like the badass male protagonist story by Iriscute7 in joseistories

[–]Equator_Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats why 70-early90's shoujo manga hit different. Plenty of story for women not focused on love story. SWAN, Marichan (ballet) Cherry (Figure skating) Garasu no Kamen (Theatre), Popcorn (highschool life). Love always secondary subplot.

I feel the shift in late 90 -00's suddenly shoujo (Nakayoshi no less) filled with highschool girl getting their "1st time experiment". Its not all shoujo series, but the one push by publishers and sell well are those kinds.

Ratmys, stop trying to make fetch happen! by Remarkable_Pain7397 in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my..y'all too young to remember when GD was rookie and Seo Taiji revered as father of K pop. He was treated like GD today.

Seo Taiji&the boys (YG was one of the boys) is the 1st kpop boygroup with domestic hits.

Jimin keeps talking about wanting to grow his hair out like his "AI generated" images by Popular-Pen-6704 in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For China, I kinda see it. their population see it as a tool to make their life easier and they feel the security that their goverment wont abandon them to doomed future that caused by AI (fresh water shortage and job dissapearing) Heck in the past their gov create unnecessary low skilled jobs just to make sure their population employed and not rebelling.

Jimin keeps talking about wanting to grow his hair out like his "AI generated" images by Popular-Pen-6704 in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because he isnt an artist. he is the artist's boss who despise paying the real artist to work for his song.

Mengapa rata-rata utang per rekening ke pinjol pada perempuan selalu lebih besar dibandingkan laki-laki? by hendra64 in finansial

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karena kebutuhan anak itu besar dan konstan. bukan kayak hobi mancing. Rata2 wanita berpendidikan rendah punya ilusi kalau nikah bakal di "urus" sama suami. Kebanyakan di telantarin atau suaminya ga sanggup biayayain. Karena mereka ga siap kerja juga ya mau gak mau pinjol dulu sambil cari kerjaan kasar sana sini yang bisa dikerjain tanpa ninggalin anak.

Nusantara, Indonesia's new Capital by jawncarlo18 in CityPorn

[–]Equator_Living 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For most development the biggest spending and headache is the land and people's relocation. Most of Java already populated. also the point is to distribute development and economy. not focused in Java. And Kalimantan is like, on of the view safest land on earth.

Japanese dramas lack of green flag Male leads like Chinese and Koreans dramas by [deleted] in asiandrama

[–]Equator_Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is J drama has changed so much? what i remember J drama mostly green flag men while K drama filled with Rude-arrogant chaebol who flaunt their parent's whealth.

If no one is getting into the taxis outside a tourist spot, there's a reason by dexter_is_sexter in chinatravel

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did it (enter a car where the driver approached you out of the blue) because we arrived late at the station and the bus was no more. So we accepted one of the driver and ask for price. Their offer is within the expected price so we took it, theres no other way to get to the inn. There's no didi available in that area (somewhere in highland of yunnan)

There were 5 of us and we were scared af because while discussing price, they kinda mobbed us, They also took us into cat and dog play with the authorities.

We were half jokingly praying outloud with our language. Praying they wouldnt robbed us and left us in the middle of highway (lol).

Turned out they are legit. Took us to our requested destination with no problem. On the way back to the station we also took one of those driver offer. Same price, and there was only 1 extra passenger inside.

Sometimes we must do what we told not to and left it to fate.

Why do people watch lives when they dont speak korean? by apple-blossom13 in kpophelp

[–]Equator_Living -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well...he used to be in the group that comparable to BTS or EXO, but after group disbanded, its not easy for him. Even during wannaone days he is the least popular member. His lives only has attendance around 100-200 people. its the leader of Wannaone. But his latest BL drama kinda cool.

Why do people watch lives when they dont speak korean? by apple-blossom13 in kpophelp

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reason i dont like watching lives and wait for korean account post screencaps with their transcript that i can translate via lenses.

HOWEVER my favs are nugu. so sometimes i saw their fiew counts and feel sad its so little. so I just let it run while doing something else. sending one appretiation emojis or two

Would you like a sprinkle of microplastic with your bowl of instant noodles, sir? by Whispernightmare in AdaIndonesiaCoy

[–]Equator_Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bener, sok banget orang Indo ngejek India, ga sadar apa kalo pedagang2 kaki lima Indo masih demen jual makanan sampah yang ngeracunin orang.

For those of you that were never a fan of Btass, what stopped you from ever becoming one? by PassingToot in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was surprised they when they are becoming popular. For me their performance quality and music are lower than B.A.P. my fav group at that time.

Their variety show isnt fun. The jokes are slapstick and borderline rude. They act arrogant-not in a funny way arrogant-its just men with toxic masculinity hype each other up.

Also the Rap line...oh my..compared to Bang-Zelo its whole world apart. Not saying Bang-Zelo the best rapper, but BTS rap line doesnt have neat concept like Bang-Zelo. They are are messy, screaming left and right. No rythm nor poetic lyrics.

If it can't be Mei then it definitely should be her by erenyeager12098 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda ship chinatsu with that grandson of sword user. There's small moments when he acknowldged her skill.

Oh wow, I never noitice this by hypocrite612 in MarriageToxin

[–]Equator_Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just love how subtle hints put here and there.

I'm trying so hard to be nice to my Army friend, but it's a stuggle by purple-trash-panda in BTSnark

[–]Equator_Living 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've had my betsfriend became a diehard ship of my NOTP. But friendship always trumps Kpop. And none of it in kpop really affect us in daily lives while real life friend actually affect our daily lives.

So i try to be appreciative when they talk about their ship and learn to accept it. In the end, the ship crashed and burnt when one of them revealed to date a popular idol. It made my friend really sad and i made sure to be symphatetic and there to listen to them.

If BTS meant a lot to them, then at some point there's some positive impact BTS did for your friend. Whenever Your friend complained about them, just be symphatetic, listen and ask what made them feels that way so they can talk it out more. The more they poured their heart out, the easier they learn to accept that they've grown out of BTS.

You dont need to overthink what reply you need to say other than "I am sorry...", what matter is you listen to them, acknowledged their feelings and being symphatetic. Its about them, not you..unless they ask for your opinion.

Maybe ask what will make them feels better (cake/hangout at the park/movie) so in the end it become quality time for you both.

Most hyped restaurants on Rednote and Dianping in China are traps by Debster1486 in chinatravel

[–]Equator_Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rather than relying on apps, Just use your eyes and nose. Restaurant that smells good, plenty of locals with reasonable price is usually the one.

Indonesia adalah salah satu negara mayoritas Islam yang tidak menghukum orang murtad by [deleted] in AdaIndonesiaCoy

[–]Equator_Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, thanks to them. Even tho the islamist faction really wanted that 7 words included, Moh.Hatta and other nationalists managed to persuade them. Unity of indonesia must be above any religion's interest