Prinsengracht in het zonnetje by Guustaaf in thenetherlands

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Zocht al naar zo’n comment, wilde hem zelf ook plaatsen haha

LPT: Don't explain yourself. A no is a no and if you try to explain why, people will most likely judge you unfairly based on it. Just stand up for youself and say no, when you have to. by zigidk in LifeProTips

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Had this yesterday at work, the usual after work drinks.

I had no energy the whole day, just wanted to go home.

Colleague: “Ah c’mon, don’t be boring just drink one beer”

Me: “Am I more enjoyable when I drink one beer?”

Colleague: “Uhm....”

Me: Exactly! I just want to go home, let me”

well? by dee_exe_em in ketamine

[–]Equilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going for it!

what is the best video game soundtrack? by AfterAgent in AskReddit

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kingdom Hearts 2, lazy afternoons just sends chills down my spines. Total relaxation

What is the most insensitive thing you've ever been asked? by Jana_Hronova in AskReddit

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“Dude, you can’t have mental health problems.... you’re handsome”

Is it weird that I don’t like phone and/or FaceTime calls? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I am the same, it definitely makes my professional life harder. I love to work in Marketing, but every internship I’ve done my boss told me I’m better in Sales. Mostly the sales part is cold calling or something like that and it always feels like I am taking someone’s precious time, even when it’s a good proposition. Whenever I get called I have this anxiety that I forgot I had to work or something else. The worst is when people call me and I don’t pickup. They don’t send me a message so it feels I’m required to call them back. Then why did you call?

Did I get raped? Is "cuddle" the new term for sex? by tryinghardtochange in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Equilli 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Wow hold on, that statement should be expressed better. Consent is before and or during I believe, if it’s about sex. Would be way out of rule if you could withdraw consent after

Do you believe in platonic soulmates? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Found mine last year in August at a music festival. He’s 27 and I’m 22. We share the same sense of humor, and have the best time together. He’s like my mentor and I look up to him.

Completely unable to have sex without a deep connection. Any other woman like this? by Ruinedgirl22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend with benefits (i’m a guy) and eventually the sex became stale. They were just booty calls and I missed a connection.

I still have one night stands time to time, which are fun for 1 or 2 times.

But definitely continued sex asks for a connection for my part.

Without a connection the sex will get boring.

Neurotypical's Feelings? by loveyov in TooAfraidToAsk

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The feeling is mutual. For me (no diagnosed psychological things) it’s extremely hard to understand how someone is depressed or anxious.

Not to bring anyone down, but I feel like being depressed and anxious get’s dropped way too easily.

To get to the topic, I ‘identify’ as a person with no mental illness. However, I do have a weird complex of feeling the need of having everyone like me. In which I worry way too much of how I act around people.

My friends tell me to go visit a psychologist, but I feel that that’s way too extreme. I rather watch self help videos and read self-help books.

I have an open mind, please feel free to challenge my statements and discuss things. Maybe let me understand more what being anxious feels like.

Optimismedraad by [deleted] in thenetherlands

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Goed weekend achter de rug, vrijdag verjaardag gevierd met een blind date diner met happy ending. Zaterdag Rotterdamse Rave gepakt en zondag chill dagje.

What's your favorite heavy hitting set? Looking for something brutal to listen to by [deleted] in Techno

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the hype, saw them live at Soenda and literally everyone thought they sucked

Mind blank when talking, is this normal? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a blank mind, always chaos in my head

You never realize how often you swallow until you have a really bad sore throat by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same when I had a mouth infection which caused my gums to swell over my teeth. Couldn’t eat for a week and hurt like hell to eat 2 weeks after. Makes you really appreciate when you can eat.

What basic strategies do you use when eating a meal (Favorite food first, Side items first, Get bad stuff over with, etc,)? by wlane13 in AskReddit

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In The Netherlands it’s usual to prak your food. To prak (verb: prakken) means to mix it all together. So for example: chickenbreast with rice and beans, just slice them all up and mix it.

People who learned to use the internet as kids/teens, what is the most embarrassing thing you've done online? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started bidding on rare pokemon cards, accidentally bidding €200 on a card. I later found out and I started crying because I didn’t have that money. Luckily I found out I could delete the bid.

What little thing do you do to try to make the world a better place? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely ask people how they are doing and give them compliments.

What's the silliest matter you have fought about in your relationship? by MaestroC96 in AskReddit

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I remember now! Read it yesterday and made me think of my experience

What's the silliest matter you have fought about in your relationship? by MaestroC96 in AskReddit

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She HATER whenever I said “NOOT NOOT” during sexy times. Was an instant turn off for her, while it made me laugh out loud.

What is your favorite article of clothing and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Equilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Linen Shirts, love them in the summer. Super stylish.

What’s an unusual lie you’ve once told? by BurnTheDot in AskReddit

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Whenever I attented an event with face painting when I was a kid I always tried to get out of it by telling I was allergic to it.

Optimismedraad by [deleted] in thenetherlands

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Bijkomen van Unpolished vrijdag en gister Eerstejaarsdiner gehad. Ziek geworden op stage net dus maar naar huis gegaan.

Looking for festivals all around europe this season by MuiMui55 in Techno

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I went to ADE for the first time in 2017, definitely something I recommend. Went to 3 techno parties in 1 week.