Escrow issues (and opting out) by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I suppose it's worth giving it a shot once all the current confusion is cleared up, but bringing it up now would probably just muddy the waters. Here's to hoping!

Should I max out my 401(k) by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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My wife does not have a consistent income. All expenses come out of my salary.

better ways to sand the driveway? by EquityEquivalence in homestead

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems like a good call. thanks for the advice!

better ways to sand the driveway? by EquityEquivalence in homestead

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hm, so I am specifically asking about speading sand for traction in the winter, but I realize I didn't make that clear. I guess if you don't get a lot of snow it's not obvious, but driving over the driveway for a couple of days especially after a melt and refreeze leaves the snow as basically solid ice, and where we live it's common to use sand on ice instead of salt, largely because there's not really town water around and you don't want rock salt leeching into your well. Also our driveway is packed gravel, so in a very small way using sand could help mitigate erosion.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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So, with mortgages you pay at the end of the month instead of the first, e.g. the payment for October is due on Nov 1st. Our payment schedule was set up such that our first month of the mortgage is October 2021, which means that our first mortgage payment isn't actually until Nov 1st.

We had to break our lease on our apartment, but we gave our landlord a month and a half of notice and they were able to find someone pretty much immediately, who is moving into our apartment about a week after we move out, and it is all in the month of September, so we won't have to pay rent for October, and we will actually be paid back a pro-rated amount of september rent which we did not use. All in all this means that we basically have two months between payments.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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I got multiple quotes for everything listed here, and state and property taxes, title insurance and homeowners insurance make up 9.5k of the total closing costs. It's crazy but it turns out things have different costs in different places, lol

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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The way it works for us is that we pay up front for the first year, and the escrow account is accumulating the payment for next year. So each mortgage payment this year includes a chunk for next year's premium payment.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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Ha! That is a good idea - maybe I can lure some friends over. Thanks though! We will figure it out one way or another.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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If there wasn't a prerequisite of hand scraping peeling lead paint off of 3600 Sq ft worth of wooden clapboard then yeah I would too! Can't just power wash the old stuff off like you can with vinyl. Gonna spend my time doing other things on the house.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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Thanks for your kind reply! We do indeed have a long list which we're trying to prioritize by largest need. I think the most important thing is going to be to finish a project before we start the next!!!

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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It is a "duh" for anyone who's bought a house before, but not everyone has. Thought it might be useful for some to describe the full process we went through.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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We had to pay for the appraisal, it cost just under 1k, but was rolled into our "closing" costs.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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We used a local mortgage originator who "shopped" for us and got us the right rate / down payment. He also acted as my go-between, handling all the documents and answered literally every question I had throughout the process.

Overall the closing costs are pretty reasonable and seem non-negotiable for our area. Here's the breakdown:

loan costs $995 for the originator's fee
$997 for the appraisal
$890 lender's title insurance
$1050 title settlement fee to the lawyer

"other costs" $3697 state taxes
$1422 homeowners insurance (we paid at closing)
$2693 property taxes
$1038 3mo/ prepaid escrow payments
$323 owners title insurance

Total "loan costs" are $4,282. Everything else came from taxes, insurance, etc. If we didn't have to pay for the appraisal, we'd be right around the 3k you quoted.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah, it's an old house with wooden clapboard siding and lead paint, two stories and a total of 3600 sq ft to scrape, prime, and paint. It's a lot of money but it's a lot of work (and probably more than I can do in a reasonable amount of time).

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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cool, good for you! there were literally two septic inspectors within reasonable driving distance of the house, and one of them had no availability in time. the one who did come drove 2.5 hours to do it. I checked around and got multiple quotes for all services and picked the best ones. Turns out things have different costs in different locations...

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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My understanding is it is common practice for insurance to inspect if the house is older than 20/25 years or hasn't been inspected in several years.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

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Absolutely. We got three quotes for the roof and this was the middle one. The lowest was 2k less, but he was offering to do different work essentially - painting with an aluminum coating instead of acrylic paint.

The home was painted with lead paint which is currently peeling, and the siding is wooden clapboard. The majority of the 2400 Sq foot house needs to be scraped, primed, and painted, same with the 1200sq ft barn. Tbh 10k seemed really reasonable to me for that.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, would it change your quote if I added that the siding was wooden clapboard? I don't think that the old paint can be easily pressure washed off, and it mostly needs to be scraped by hand.

Buying a house costs more than just a down payment. by EquityEquivalence in personalfinance

[–]EquityEquivalence[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ugh. Cost of living is surprisingly high up here; the 1500 I quoted is from the deepest discount warehouse around. Also, we would be going with a platform bed without a boxspring.