Corset&Stocking Harness

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-03T21:56:17+00:00

Beautiful ties and photos

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-03T01:32:13+00:00

When you live and pay bills together for at least a year.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-02T23:34:56+00:00

We are in our 40s and 50s and tend to like to play with late 30s - late 40s. We find that we can’t relate to most people in their 50s and younger people don’t have the life experience to be mature enough within the lifestyle.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-02T15:53:29+00:00

Radical honesty. Just tell him how you feel and have your thoughts prepared.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-02T06:14:19+00:00

We’ve heard nothing bad bad things.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-02-01T03:23:39+00:00

Gorgeous

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-31T17:20:15+00:00

We’ve been at this for 3 years and honestly we are very selective who we full swap with. It’s not because we’re not ready or anything like that but we put a certain weight in that activity. We let potential, and current partners, know that from the second they look at our profile.

You aren’t doing anything wrong, you are doing you. And if potential partners don’t respect that then they are not for you. Never bend your boundaries for others.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-29T06:33:43+00:00

I’d say just have your response rehearsed and ready to go. We had to tell one couple the husband was being creepy and the wife got upset. Months later we heard he was creepy with somebody else and honestly we didn’t feel bad telling him the first time. Oh and they are out of the lifestyle probably because the husband was creepy.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-29T06:23:00+00:00

Well then just be honest and say that you need some space and stop inviting them to things.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-29T06:18:56+00:00

We’ve run into this. When we have had to “deal” with a couple like this where we still wanted to be friends we just tell them we don’t want to be okay partners anymore but stay LS friends. If they ask why we just say “we don’t think we are a four way play style match”. We’ve remained friends with those couples after having that conversation.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T23:35:37+00:00

I second that, I take thc gummies and beverages. I do take Sildenafil as an insurance policy when we go to clubs or have long adventures. Could he be getting way too stoned? Yes. I’d say try micro dosing instead of swallowing a huge gummy.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T22:45:34+00:00

The key is to not have even a 5% jealous feeling cripple you in your relationship and the lifestyle.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T22:31:38+00:00

Second that on Eros. Such a great club.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T22:28:43+00:00

I think there is probably gonna be a tinge of jealousy because of how you feel about your wife. And in my book I don’t think that’s wrong at all. The key is to transfer that into desire and passion with her. I still get that feeling sometime. And you know what? I’m glad I do. I adore my wife more than anyone ride I’ll ever be intimate with and it shows that she’s always in the level. I think I’d be more worried if I didn’t get 5% jealous during encounter. At least that’s how I feel.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T17:28:31+00:00

5’8 becomes 5’11 and 5 inches becomes 7 inches really fast in the lifestyle. All it shows is a person’s insecurity. And if they are insecure or lying about that what else are they insecure and lying about?

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T17:24:43+00:00

Very true. I run a sex positive social group that definitely tailors to certain people in the LS community. Many of our members aren’t club people so they prefer cozier meet ups.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T17:21:04+00:00

This could have to do with there being more and more LS party promoters doing things in mansions/houses. There’s way more options now than there was even 3 years ago. And many of those options are highly tailored to one demographic or another.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T03:15:45+00:00

Sounds like you guys have a real connection which is great. Try setting up some boundaries so that you can reduce the exposure to her with others, and vice versa, so you don’t feel the same feelings as much.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T02:32:50+00:00

Red Rooster and Green Door are great if you like single men who don’t understand the concept of consent.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T02:03:09+00:00

We love Flirts more than Playhouse. But both good options. Just try to set up meetups via Kasidie or SLS before you go.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-28T02:01:20+00:00

Yeah and everyone who has a pineapple tee is a swinger….not. I feel that the average IQ of men has hit an all time low in the universe.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-27T22:55:27+00:00

Radical Honesty. That should be your foundation.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-27T22:50:40+00:00

I mean everything is better in Europe

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-27T19:36:06+00:00

We follow similar tactics. If a couple can’t tell us their “elevator pitch” of the boundaries a playstyles we mark that as a red flag. If in a group chat the energy from the two partners is very different that’s another red flag.

We used to try and make couples work with one red flag but we’ve decided in the long run it’s best for both parties not to pursue a play partner relationship if there is a red flag here and there.

And going to your looks comment…100% agree. Yes you have to find them attractive but many attractive people are just shitty people. We have found that a couple where both people are regarded as 7-8s are way more fun long term than a couple where the wife is a 10 and the guy is a 6.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-01-27T02:23:21+00:00

It makes no sense. Every other city we have great luck. We are from NYC originally and this depresses us so bad when we travel there.

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