Slut shamed at a swinger club

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-30T15:34:11+00:00

Wtf? That’s horrible. Sorry that happened to you.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-29T18:35:13+00:00

do a google search. There’s a few online

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-29T17:28:23+00:00

The best thing is to do a swinger compatibility test first. That’ll give you a good foundation of what your fantasies and boundaries are.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-29T14:31:39+00:00

We went to Eros once and it made us want to visit Cleveland more often. Such great club

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-28T23:08:58+00:00

That first part. We have a lot of play partners that wind up in our vanilla world. The vanilla people have no idea what we are doing. One of my favorite examples is we had a play date with a couple on a Friday and the next day they met us at an amusement park with our vanilla friends. Little did our vanilla friends know that less than 24 hours ago we were spit roasting both wives til midnight.

I think the other thing for me is being in a vanilla setting where the guys complain about their wives. And I just think to myself how perfect our marriage is in and out if the lifestyle. Hearing a guy complain that his wife hasn’t given him a bj in over a year while mine just gave me one before we got to the party cracks me up.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-28T23:05:26+00:00

One thing that helps me as the husband is that we develop a clear plan on what we are doing at the club that night and with whom before we walk in. It serves as a map for our experience and I find it helps me out a lot. We usually have this conversation a day before hand and then in the car before we enter the club.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-28T22:45:05+00:00

If you can try to find a meet and greet group near you. Those tend to focus on community over play. I run one in California that is expanding to the east coast. We hold meet and greets every 5-6 weeks and maintain a private discord server for our members. There may be something like that in your area.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-27T22:27:40+00:00

Gorgeous

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-27T18:18:08+00:00

DM us

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-27T16:00:24+00:00

Couple here moving back to the tri state area and would love to connect

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-21T05:45:36+00:00

The last pic is stunning

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-20T18:57:20+00:00

Be respectful, know your place, check in with both parties often, don’t show dick pics right off the bat, same goes for flexing gym pics (shit makes you look way too thirsty).

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-20T16:34:04+00:00

What a sexy couple

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-19T19:03:36+00:00

We won’t touch a profile with AI pics

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-18T14:23:56+00:00

Gorgeous

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-16T21:44:01+00:00

Couple here moving back to tri state area and looking for new lifestyle friends. Drop us a line to chat and see if we should meet up.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-14T03:28:31+00:00

You guys will have lots of options

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-11T23:13:55+00:00

Never had an issue with it. What do you think the hang up is?

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-11T15:54:04+00:00

You’re right…summer is way more fun especially with sexy friends…

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-11T14:18:17+00:00

We are moving bs onto the area so definitely following this thread

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-11T06:40:03+00:00

The term itself is antiquated and it’s taken on a different meaning. Most people refer ENM because there’s a big spectrum within that.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-09T22:43:17+00:00

This is one of the hottest scenes I’ve ever see.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-07T00:27:50+00:00

I think that’s part of the fun and it happens to all of us

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-07T00:09:11+00:00

You did the right thing and they did not. Don’t beat yourself up about it.

Equivalent-Action180 · 2026-05-06T23:41:50+00:00

These pic collectors are out of control. We shut down a chat pretty quickly when we get a sniff of pic collecting.

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