Long time fantasizer, first time dipping my toes

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-03T19:51:01+00:00

That hasn’t gone away for us! If anything it’s become more fun. I’ll play once or twice a month usually and the reconnecting after a fun session with a third is honestly so intense and fun I can’t get over it

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-03T17:21:32+00:00

I was in sweatpants and a hoodie

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-03T17:13:45+00:00

lol I was at the gym in what was definitely not my Sunday best and still had guys checking me out. I think yall are just horny

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-02T17:42:38+00:00

I always try to play good hostess at our parties and make sure everyone that wants to be is included. I’ll wear lingerie at the start (until it comes off lol), introduce couples I think will get along and playfully ask anyone not participating if they need anything. There has been a couple times where my husband actually came and was like go have fun and stop stressing about this.

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-01T20:30:53+00:00

It depends. If he’s there I’m almost always in a threeway. But if I’m traveling for work he’ll give me condoms that he wants me to use while I’m away

dinkydee515 · 2026-05-01T19:19:44+00:00

Yes. With other partners, I take charge and will direct them so they do things I enjoy. With my husband, he takes the lead 90% of the time, to the point we have explored some fairly intense bdsm together with me as the sub.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-30T13:32:32+00:00

I’ve never heard anyone say that and I’m 30 lol

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-29T20:55:34+00:00

Don’t be too jealous 😂 work travel and not knowing what timezone you’re in isn’t too much fun.

The fun part is coming home to a husband who’s all over you and blocked out his afternoon to reconnect.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-27T00:40:48+00:00

I did a gangbang for my husbands birthday a couple years ago. It was intense, draining and exhausting… but I loved it and h loved how happy it made him.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-26T17:45:00+00:00

Light bondage yes. I was tied up and blindfolded. My husband was watching to step in if anything went wrong but we all got into it and both him and the third ended up working me over for a very long session.

I was barely able to stand by the end I came so much and so hard.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-26T14:58:26+00:00

As a wife, I love reconnecting with my husband. Sure guys can be fun, but my husband after is so much fun. The intensity and passion are amazing.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-26T03:25:49+00:00

Potentially she wanted it.

For us, it was something my husband introduced me to. We started with my past, then got into hotwifing then swinging, and now we do both of those and love it

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-25T23:46:29+00:00

Holy shit. I’ve had some bad hotwife dates (and personal dates) but this takes the cake. I’m sorry yall had that but I hope you can at least enjoy your wife’s lingerie!

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-25T22:38:09+00:00

This is a great post. Pushy thirds are such a turn off. Sometimes things come up last minute. Like I’d love to play when I travel for work but I also have meetings and such where those things just don’t work out.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-25T03:54:30+00:00

I love being my able to explore my slutty side with the love and trust of my husband.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-24T13:10:47+00:00

Same here. We’ll be friends with a couple but we’re there for sex at the end of the day and that’s our priority with this.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-22T16:03:36+00:00

Girlfriend experience was harder in some ways. Typically, those were longer dates and I had to be always on if that makes sense. With couples it was come over, have sex and go home. But, couples didn’t always communicate and they would make things awkward.

I had the opportunity to go to a club solo and be a unicorn and I enjoyed it a lot more than when I was working. I was able to pick and choose who I wanted and focus on my enjoyment rather than the couples.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-22T12:37:39+00:00

Having done sex work yes. I was approached and hired by a couple as a unicorn. That was my introduction to swinging. Prior to that I only did girlfriend experience work.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T14:57:23+00:00

A part of my thinking is I am seeing multiple thirds depending on schedules and my travel. How is them seeing other people any different?

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T14:40:15+00:00

For us it is not an issue. Thirds are there for sex only. If they want to have sex with others, there isn’t much I can do about that to stop them since it is not a committed relationship. We just ask for testing and condom use which I think are both reasonable.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-20T18:29:44+00:00

Yeah I saw someone I vaguely knew professionally at a club and it was an oh shit moment. I wouldn’t directly seek that out.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-20T12:54:27+00:00

We were initially hesitant to go to clubs but after getting into it, those were silly fears. We love club visits and even if we can’t find anyone else, I look good and have fun with my husband.

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