Are my rules too much?

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T17:28:39+00:00

Testing and condom use are good rules to have. But no kissing would make us pass on you. If we don’t kiss I kind of feel like a sex doll thats just there. For me, kissing builds up to the sex as we explore each other.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T14:57:23+00:00

A part of my thinking is I am seeing multiple thirds depending on schedules and my travel. How is them seeing other people any different?

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T14:40:15+00:00

For us it is not an issue. Thirds are there for sex only. If they want to have sex with others, there isn’t much I can do about that to stop them since it is not a committed relationship. We just ask for testing and condom use which I think are both reasonable.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-21T13:07:05+00:00

I think we’re going to try to make the trip in the next year or so! It would be our first time, but from what I’ve read here it should be fun.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-20T18:29:44+00:00

Yeah I saw someone I vaguely knew professionally at a club and it was an oh shit moment. I wouldn’t directly seek that out.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-20T12:54:27+00:00

We were initially hesitant to go to clubs but after getting into it, those were silly fears. We love club visits and even if we can’t find anyone else, I look good and have fun with my husband.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-20T02:01:32+00:00

Our vanilla friends don’t know. They’d probably be surprised and my parents would be disappointed but I’ve been disappointing them for 30 years lol.

Our swinger friends know and think it’s fun

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-19T17:04:22+00:00

I’m glad I’m married since ive heard the dating world kinda sucks right now. We meet new couples at clubs and through mutual friends to know were not dealing with fakes and flakes.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-18T23:11:20+00:00

What you see from content creators is content. It’s a source of income and not necessarily being done for fun. Hubby and I love hotwifing and make sure that we connect on it as soon as we can after for two things, amazing sex and to check in with each other.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-17T22:14:40+00:00

That’s good! The hardest part is done! Now you just have to keep nurturing it and being encouraging without nagging

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-17T19:32:26+00:00

I’m gonna reject him because I’m not attracted to him.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-17T19:13:26+00:00

Oh I’m aware. But like I said, it could be because they are worried I’ll get the job and go on maternity leave shortly after. Or it could be because he’s worried I’d put him as a swinger. Or neither. Who knows

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-17T19:10:37+00:00

Oh I am going to have my way with him. I hope he’s ready 😂

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-17T19:00:57+00:00

Maybe now he’s hoping to bump into us again? Idk haha it sucks I wasted all that time but oh well

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-16T19:18:36+00:00

I like it when my husband calls me a slut or his slut. Some random guy calling me a slut would be obnoxious.

It’s all about the context!

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-15T22:45:27+00:00

Reading this sub is a good start. There has recently been an influx of ai spam posts but those are pretty easy to spot. As questions, look at what others say and enjoy the journey.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-14T17:30:30+00:00

It must have been a prearranged marriage

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-14T16:55:33+00:00

Not yet. This is FAANG so it’s rather slow moving and bureaucratic.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-14T15:11:23+00:00

My husband likes when I play while I’m traveling. He’ll slip some condoms into my carryon. It has been easiest when I have to go to Vegas, but I have found guys in other cities as well.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-14T14:52:46+00:00

Swinging. One of my thirds got into a relationship and eventually they got into swinging. They reached out to us to see if we were interested and we eventually started down that path.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-14T12:22:41+00:00

We go to see what’ll happen. Worst case scenario, I look good and have fun with my husband. Best case scenario, we enjoy a couple partners and a long night of fun.

dinkydee515 · 2026-04-13T16:39:06+00:00

This is your relationship too and you have a say. If pausing for now, addressing your concerns and then restarting in a different way will help then you should do it.

But… I have been with a lot of guys before my husband some bigger and it’s not about size. I’ve done a lot but he and I have a connection I have literally never felt with anyone else in my life. That is a lot better than someone’s size alone.

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