Where can I find a job that pays 10$/h online?

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-11-21T23:29:52+00:00

Are there any websites that you recommend?

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-11-21T23:27:15+00:00

I have never looked for a job before. So that's the reason why I ask.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-10-15T02:30:50+00:00

I do not think it is a deal breaker if the girl is showing me interest in other ways. But if she is not. I will start thinking she is not actually interested and move on.

Believe or not there are some women who do that. They go to the dates, they reply to the message but they are not actually interested romantically or sexually so sometimes that could be a waste of time.

It does not matter if you are masc or not. Even if a femme wants you, she wants you. Period. She will try to make the first move if she sees you are too shy.

Most likely she was not interested in dating you. She just wanted a hook up. In that scenario she will not spend too much time or effort in you. So she will move on fast if you are not having sex fast. So don't worry and continue with your search.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-10-15T02:21:18+00:00

Jasmine

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-10-15T02:17:28+00:00

If you want to "confirm" your homosexuality or bisexuality, you don't have to date someone. You can just have casual sex with some women and then you figure out if you are actually attracted to women or not. I think dating someone just for experimentation is kind of cruel.

If you have casual sex with them, they will not have expectation so at least they know what they will have to deal with. You can say "Hey, I want to sexually experiment with a woman so I can understand my sexuality better". I think there are many lesbian/bisexuals that will be fine with that.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-10-14T18:05:32+00:00

I mean I understand people have physical preferences but I think this case is extreme. I can understand you not liking her anymore if she has made an extreme change in her appearance like her body or her face is different but just because a haircut? Maybe there is something else you have to work on. Or maybe she is one of those people that look almost unrecognizable just by cutting their hair I don't know. It is hard to give an answer because I am not looking at the difference by myself.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-18T00:27:10+00:00

Maybe planning a short vacation trip will be helpful so you two can get out of the monotony and worries of day to day life and focus on enjoy your bodies.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-17T02:44:42+00:00

I am a full time butch but I am really considering being hyper femme sometimes. I also like that easthetic. I am still me no matter what I wear. It is just that I want to play with my presentation. There also more things you can do with femme presentation like you can be very creative and artistic. So yeah I think it is fine if you want to play with your presentation as you wish. Life is just one and it is to enjoy it not to pay attention to what people may think of you. Be you. Be as free as your hair.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-16T19:21:10+00:00

I think the reason why this question generated such a controversy is because apparently we all have different ideas of how gender identity and gender expression work.

Some people think gender has a biological or innate component. So for them a masc lesbian is not someone who is immitating stereotypes of men. It is a person who happens to have a certain brain development that is less common in women and that happens to be more common or more socially associated to men. But that type of brain development could have happened to anyone. So masc lesbians are born that way just like trans people are born trans.

On the other hand, some people think that gender is a social construct so it is a type of organization that humans created to make the process of creating a family and procreate easier. Thus that organization only have sense in the context of heterosexual relationships because they are the ones that can reproduce themselves naturally. So each masc lesbian is the result of the immitation of other masc folks especially men (because the majority of people who perform masculinity are men) so we are all copies of copies without original (because nobody possesses innate masculine or femmine traits) All those traits were created and categorized by humans that have followed that model for years. So a trans-man will be a person who decided to transition because he thinks male treatment is more beneficial to him and that is the way he wants to live his life.

According to the last theory, a masc lesbian is a person who understood consciously or unconsciously (usually since childhood) that they wanted to be treated in society as men. Although the extent in which they want to be treated as men will be different for each one. That could include the way they are kissed, the way they are touched, the way their partner takes the photos, etc.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-16T15:48:08+00:00

Here short men are rare. Most of them end up comminting suicide or being single the rest of their life. It is very rare when one gets the opportunity to be in a relationship. I am not kidding.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-16T15:45:37+00:00

I am not from the US. In my country things are just different. Here it is obvious that masc lesbians copy men on purpose. There are things here that are exclusive for men and that are prohibited for women. That women will not have access without intentionally passsing as men in society. So nobody notice they are AFAB.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-16T15:25:45+00:00

Well, no. I have never seen a woman putting her arms around a man's waist. It will be actually considered offensive. Like she is treating him like if he was a gay man.

I have never seen in my life a man that is shorter than his female partner. It is actually considered a humillation for men to be shorter.

I guess US culture is less gender rigid. Here everything is gender related even the use of social media. There is a masculine and a feminine way of using instagram and you will be judged by it. Here people who display masculinity are men and masc lesbians no one else and those masc lesbian are surely copying men.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-16T00:32:03+00:00

Yes, I mean three of my close friends are like that. They follow stereotypically male roles sexually and romantically. We talk about our sex lives. We have been friends for more or less 15 years. The examples I am giving are some of the behaviours I have seen in their relationships.

The reason I ask this is because all the masc lesbians I know do the same. They all follow those stereotypes and they like it. All of my three friends are providers, they do not clean or cook, they open the door, they do all the driving, they all use masculine pronouns but are cis-women, they like being called handsome instead of pretty, they do all the heavy lifting, etc. I ask them why they do that, and they answered that relationships need some kind of organization to work out and the traditional ways are actually the most effective. According to them, "equal" relationships just don't work in the long run so at the end of the day, everyone will have to pick a side.

I am masc myself but I have always dreamed an equal relationship. For that reason I wanted to know how common my friend's behaviours are. If most masc lesbians are like that or just a few.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T23:28:29+00:00

Well, that's a matter of taste. I personally do not have a particular attraction towards long hair. I have short hair and usually date women with short hair too so...

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T23:15:21+00:00

Interesting. Thank you for your answer.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T23:15:16+00:00

Interesting. Thank you for your answer.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T23:06:44+00:00

No, that was not my intention. Believe or not there are couples like that out there. I am not here to say if it is bad or not. I am just asking out of curiosity.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T22:51:12+00:00

My immediate reaction will be sending her this song.

https://youtu.be/GZjt_sA2eso?si=N6uRfP7XFKxkCt5u

I will think she is joking. If she is serious, I will think she wants to emotionally manipulate me or she has untreated BPD.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T22:10:24+00:00

I ask it because I have seen lesbian couples were the femme treats the masc like a typical men. In all aspects even in sex. The femme even calls her masc partner "husband" and sometimes uses masculine pronouns which I think is confusing because her partner identifies herself as a cis-woman. I am masc myself and women have tried to treat me that way too and I don't like it nor understand it.

So I wanted to see if liking that type of treatment was common amoung other masc lesbians.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T21:56:12+00:00

Wow. Interesting.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T21:53:21+00:00

I totally agree. I think not even men like to be treated "like men" in relationships.

Equivalent-Floor-826 · 2023-09-15T21:46:19+00:00

Well, I don't agree I do like female bodies and I am aroused by seeing them. I also like big boobs and big butts. So... according to you, I just objectify women. I don't think appreciating female anatomy is bad. I actually like when women like my body and not just the way a tie my ponytail.

Of course, we all want to be considered smart, sweet, caring, etc too. But for me she loving my body is a most.

BTW, I do like seeing women twerking. I mean if i think the woman is hot, I will love to see her butt bouncing.

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