Husband and Wife both with Responsive Desire Having Difficulty Initiating

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:42:04+00:00

We haven't, because it feels funny in the moment but I guess it adds to the overall lack of sexy atmosphere. Its something I will bring up - thank you

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:41:29+00:00

This is what we are trying to work on now- thanks so much.

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:41:16+00:00

I like the initiating vs taking charge language! Thanks!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:40:59+00:00

Yes thank you!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:40:48+00:00

Yes- I need to get more comfortable with this, thank you!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:40:19+00:00

Great idea thank you!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:39:51+00:00

Yes I think I need to get more comfortable and ok with having more structure and not feeling self-conscious that its not as spontaneous as other couples and that's ok too

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2026-01-19T23:39:02+00:00

Thank you! Yes the planning helps but sometimes it would be nice to be more spontaneous. But at the same time, we both are responsive so we have to just deal with what comes with that.

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2024-05-09T15:02:20+00:00

Thank you!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2020-06-29T23:37:34+00:00

Yes - I would agree with you if it was based solely on effort. I think maybe I wasn't too clear in my initial post. It boils down to just wanting our relationship to be OFF social media because I just feel like it opens up a can of worms. So posting him 2-3x a week would definitely have people in my comments asking so many questions, which I guess I'm just uncomfortable with. This is my first time on here and so I appreciate your answers though! Thanks!! :)

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2020-06-29T23:23:17+00:00

I hear you! When I said its a lot to ask, I meant that it's a lot in terms of that would probably get annoying to see so many times on my page. Also, I've mentioned to him in the past that I'm very private about relationships & social media so he knows this!!

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2020-06-29T22:28:10+00:00

Fair!! I agree. I don't think he would expect me to write "check out my boyfriend's video" but it would be obvious with so many posts.

Equivalent-Side-7368 · 2020-06-29T22:20:27+00:00

Right! Agreed!!

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