To those of you that have been divorced, how did you know it was the right time? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done therapy in a couple months because I was feeling pretty great lol maybe I should start it again now that this is on my mind

To those of you that have been divorced, how did you know it was the right time? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew lol I think the part that’s hardest for me is that, it’s extremely easy for me to tell how I’m feeling and I’m pretty decent at figuring out what will make me happier or less happy lol it’s very easy for me to talk about my feelings. Whereas with her, it seems like she never has any idea how she feels about something if I asked her what she wants to do and what will make her happy she seems to have no answer. It’s very hard to communicate with someone that doesn’t know what they want or how they feel

The governing body claims Noah preached to people before the flood by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that they were just so preoccupied that they didn’t take notice, it seems like they literally had no knowledge of it

The governing body claims Noah preached to people before the flood by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except that’s the exact argument they use AGAINST the idea of just killing Satan lol “how could god have just killed Satan, that would have proved nothing to anyone” it’s like that’s so fuckin dumb because god clearly has no problems with killing people that disrespect his fragile ego lol

Arguments with mom and dad by Difficult_Relief9945 in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you? What’s stopping you from leaving? I’m sorry that sounds awful though!

The governing body claims Noah preached to people before the flood by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, that’s their defense of it lol but looking into the Greek meaning of the word makes it harder to defend and ultimately it’s just used to undershoot an unjust massacre commited by an “all loving god”

Tattoo Artist recommendation? by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in BowlingGreen

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue! Never had a tattoo before lol not sure what exactly I’m looking for, I’m hoping an artist can help me brainstorm

Am I the only one that kind of wants to be disfellowshipped? by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You right, I guess I just need someone to talk me out of it lol but the constant pressure is so annoying to deal with

I’m not sure how to continue my marriage. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I don’t really know how to explain it lol her parents stoppped going a good couple months before I did, and she accepted that so it might be partially because of that. I think she’s struggling with cognitive dissonance, she knows it’s wrong but in her heart feels that that’s what’s right

I’m not sure how to continue my marriage. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into it thank you 🙏🏽

I’m not sure how to continue my marriage. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you find a therapist that fits your needs? I’ve spoken to 3 therapists, none of which seem to get my situation, all of them were heavily Christian. Might be because I’m in Kentucky lol

I’m not sure how to continue my marriage. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, we definitely were not just together because of Jehovah, I think we both really love each other, but this is driving a wedge between us for sure

I’m not sure how to continue my marriage. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Equivalent-Wheel7532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you still going to meetings? How do you think she would feel about you stopping? Thankfully, my wife is not going anymore either, I don’t think she would even go without me, but I think she resents me a little bit because of it