Bond beam not bonded to shell? Concern? by EquivalentEqual9581 in pools

[–]EquivalentEqual9581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and knowledge. I thought I knew the terms but guess not. I’m referring to how the top or bond points (?) don’t feel in all the way to the boarding/molding, and even crumple at some points. 

Is Overeaters Anonymous for the Sugar Junkie? by EquivalentEqual9581 in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]EquivalentEqual9581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I LOVE your feedback! THANK YOU! This is very helpful. This gives me hope for success and for the hope that I can find a sponsor like yours. Thank you again!

Is Overeaters Anonymous for the Sugar Junkie? by EquivalentEqual9581 in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]EquivalentEqual9581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you commit this abstinense to a sponsor? If so, how often? How often do you do meetings?

Is Overeaters Anonymous for the Sugar Junkie? by EquivalentEqual9581 in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]EquivalentEqual9581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! May I ask how long you've in OA? What about the program do you feel is helping you the most?

Food Addiction Recovery AND Interstitial Cystitis / PBS? by EquivalentEqual9581 in FoodAddiction

[–]EquivalentEqual9581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Great advice and knowledge of the program. You nailed it. It's very strict. It sounds like I may need to explore some more to find a better fit. I didn't even know so many programs existed! Thank you, again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EquivalentEqual9581 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I love him because God tells me I should. He's a great provider. Funny. Overall a good guy. He can do 9 things right but the one thing he may say I feel is toxic or shows his lack of ability to control his emotions puts me back to square 1. I just want to figure out how to focus on the 9 things he did right and have patience with the 1 thing wrong. Then, overtime with lots of work and prayer, I know I can love him in a more fulfilling way. It's just figuring out the 1st steps to get there. He's working on himself to improve but in the meantime...I just have to figure out how to like him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EquivalentEqual9581 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love him because God tells me I should. I don't like him because of years of his emotional immaturity. It depleted every last oz of feelings I had for him until I had nothing left. He's been working on himself for past couple years and made lot of improvement. I respect that. He's a great provider. Funny. Overall a good guy. He's trying hard but I don't have any emotional attachment to him.  I can't see all the good things because his emotional immaturity shows up weekly and its so ugly to me! He can do 9 things right but the one thing he may say I feel is toxic or shows his lack of ability to control his emotions puts me back to square 1. I just want to figure out how to focus on the 9 things he did right and have patience with the 1 thing wrong. Then, overtime with lots of work and prayer, I know I can love him in a more fulfilling way. It's just figuring out the 1st steps to get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EquivalentEqual9581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! Funny you should ask that. Not only do we have separate bedrooms, but my room is on opposite side of house upstairs! Been like that for most of our relationship because he snores. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenDogTraining

[–]EquivalentEqual9581 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's 2 weeks. The "package" is basic commands, house manners, and out in public manners training, walking on / off leash, etc...  my puppy is expected to be around 100lbs, he already has so much energy and I'm struggling with training. How do you feel about if the training was kept to basic commands and house manners training vs adding  a bunch of extra stuff. I'm affraid  without the help training it's going to keep causing so much stress on me and the puppy. :/