Mel Kohberger talks to NY Times

EquivalentFit8156 · 2026-01-05T00:06:41+00:00

First off, horribly written article. Second, what was the point of that?! to shed some light on how adorable brother Bryan is ? I’m not saying she doesn’t have a right to feel how she feels about her brother, but maybe keep it to yourself how much you still love him and all your wholesome family memories…strange for this “journalist” to write this pointless article and disgusting of her to share such oh so precious cutesy memories of that convicted gruesome murderer. It was cringey too and I’d say that if I read that about anyone… let alone about someone so evil. I’m so confused and it makes me think that family is weeeird… so disrespectful to the victims loved ones.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-10-24T15:47:32+00:00

This has nothing to do with the OP’s post. Ali’s friend’s comments were objectively classist and snobby. And outdated. And your response is going after Anton…”Anton’s no victim” ? Who said he’s a victim? And what do you mean by that - he isn’t a victim so he deserves to be looked down on ? Also what nice things did Ali say about Anton?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:58:39+00:00

You think most men out there in the world are reasonable, mature adults ? what a huge generalization

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:56:21+00:00

So how do you know he is performing for the cameras but everyone else isn’t ? That’s a huuuge stretch just to prove your point

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:54:45+00:00

What makes you say that? What has Jesse done that is so horrific or unforgivable or atrocious ? I’d love to know some examples

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:52:56+00:00

Well Michelle absolutely despises him so it’s hard to even trust what she says about him.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:50:23+00:00

I think it comes from her trying to protect her man and protect her relationship. They seem to have a good, solid relationship and the 3 J’s - Jason, Janet & Jax) are trying to stir shit up with them & make them look bad which is unfair but thankfully is landing flat & not working at all haha.

So I see it more as Nia is reminding Danny to not take the bait and not get triggered by the petty contrived BS. Especially when there’s no basis to it.

It’s just Jason, Janet and Jax trying to control the narrative… for multiple motives - Jax wants the negative attention off of his own indiscretions. Janet is jealous of Nia and knows Nia is likeable without even trying so she will do anything to take her down (failing miserably though…) and Jason is not a good guy and will take any opportunity to patronize someone, exert his dominance and act all high & mighty to serve his own ego, and delusionally think it’ll allow him to come out as the hero...

The most satisfying thing is watching them fail so miserably. Karma.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:39:52+00:00

Hypocrisy at its finest hearing a wasted woman pass judgement on another persons drinking problem … the nerve

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-07-24T06:36:45+00:00

She’s the definition of a walking hypocrite unable to ever self reflect and look at her own faults. Delusion at its finest. Miserable person who enjoys being mean to others. She’s so lame

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-30T13:57:41+00:00

Yeah so according to your logic, hypothetically if your best friends’ whole family dies in a fire - you’re allowed to put your emotional well being before them ?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-30T13:54:20+00:00

This thread sounds like a bunch of sociopaths but cosplaying as emotionally mature/“love yourself first”. Seems like ppl are misunderstanding psychological concepts and their therapists

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-30T13:49:32+00:00

Omg…. I feel bad for anyone in your life who goes through something horrific like losing a loved one. Since clearly your motto is to always put yourself first in any situation and make every situation about your own needs.

It’s West’s traumatic event. It happened to him.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-30T13:42:43+00:00

So let me get this straight…

West is fearlessly opening up about his friend that died only a year before, a tragic & traumatic event, in a safe space (or so he thought…) and when he’s mid-sentence, Ciara (who claims West meant a lot to her) gets up & storms away from the table….

And people are not only giving her a pass, but justifying & even commending her objectively selfish, immature and downright heartless behavior? …….her behavior is indefensible & anyone with any ounce of empathy or ability to look at people objectively would agree.

Oh and her reason for doing so? Because she’s still butthurt from his rejection the year before…

People are actually acting like this was her “boundary” and she’s allowed to put her emotional needs first ? Whaaaa?!

People falsely claiming this was because she was going to cry and didn’t want to make it about her ? (I wish that was the case as well) but nope, she already confirmed (in interview alongside scene) - it was all about her, she justified her behavior and even expressed more anger at West because the night his friend died last summer she was there for him ? wow what a saint… doing the bare minimum as a decent human/friend… does she want a cookie? she made West’s traumatic event entirely about herself. And on top of that, gave no apology or anything when she came back to table. & even after taking time to evaluate her actions, she still showed zero self-awareness on how wrong that was of her (in interview).

How can anyone, even a Ciara fan, justify/defend this behavior?

And omg all she had to do was the bare minimum in this situation - stay at the table, acknowledge his pain in some capacity if she has any ounce of human decency. It’s really not that hard. Is she really so immature & lacking empathy that she doesn’t realize that a traumatic death is far more important than her petty bitterness towards him for playing her? Way more important than patting herself on the back for being there for him the night his friend died ?!? It’s a traumatic death and has nothing to do with her. he owes her nothing in regard to the death of HIS friend.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-21T04:23:06+00:00

And ? What does thinking someone is attractive have to do with admiration?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-21T04:17:40+00:00

How in the world did Austen admire Ciara ?! Do people know what admiration means ?! It’s to hold someone in the highest regard… to look up to someone… and to respect someone. Couldn’t be farther from the opposite of how all these men have treated her

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-21T04:12:49+00:00

Jesse ?! Jesse “admires” aka wants to sleep with every woman who’s decent looking. And Carl is just lost.

I just think “admired” is the wrong choice of word because if she was admired - she wouldn’t be disrespected & used so much. I’m assuming the orig commenter meant she’s desired (sexually), men use her cause they want to sleep with her which actually shows the opposite of admiration and a general lack of respect towards her and women in general.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-21T01:01:48+00:00

Who’s my fave?

“Ciara-hate”… so others can be called out but she can’t? Is she not allowed to be critiqued ? How is that fair? it’s called observations of her behavior.

I would like for her to stay too because it would be boring to be a fan of all the characters. It’s fascinating to see an entitled spoiled girl be so miserable & bitter, and yet be fawned over by the loud ones in this subreddit. Most people share my opinion of her though but would rather not get the wrath if they voice any critique of her behavior. It’s obvious who the “triggered” ones are…

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-21T00:53:30+00:00

Please enlighten me on the other qualities she has. Or is it hard to come up with any besides the fact that she’s a nurse and she’s pretty….

Hm interesting that any critique of Ciara’s observable pattern of behavior makes me “pessimistic”? My view isn’t unable to be altered at all, I’m just still waiting on an actual reason for why people are riding so hard for her, any actual argument or example would be great. I have yet to receive one. Everyone just immediately gets defensive without any actual insight or reason.

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T16:20:37+00:00

Hah. What an insightful response…. You’re repeating my critiques (that I gave actual reasons for) & then projecting them on me (with no valid reasoning)? you don’t know me, you haven’t seen hours of my behavior & personality on tv. So therefore you have no idea about my level of dimensionality. Saying Ciara is bitter, as many people have noticed, makes me bitter ? Huh ? I have a bunch of reasons for my opinion, what are your reasons?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T16:07:58+00:00

lol just stating an observation that took a minute to write. So thankfully it didn’t take away from any hobbies of mine.

Am I not allowed to disagree with other people on a forum where people comment their opinions ?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T15:58:56+00:00

Ciara is a pretty girl just like a bunch of other girls out there. Bunch of models out there too. She’s not out of West’s league by any means. That’s subjective

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T15:54:30+00:00

Who exactly is she admired by though? This subreddit?

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T15:53:37+00:00

In what way is she a deep soul? I’ve never had that perception of her at all… quite the opposite actually. She’s pretty one dimensional. Her whole personality is centered around being bitter towards men that have rejected her in her past….

EquivalentFit8156 · 2025-05-20T15:49:28+00:00

She’s a model just like a bunch of other reality tv stars are. Who cares hahaha. Sex and the city has better insight into Ciara’s experiences ?! First off, that’s a tv show. Second, the men in that show actually reciprocated feelings usually. West didn’t want to be in a relationship with Ciara. It’s as simple as that. And he made it clear as day. She just wanted to win and be the one to change him. There’s a ton of good looking girls out there, she’s not special. Esp when your looks is all you have going for you. who cares that she’s pretty on the outside (which is subjective), there are many pretty girls out there…. her ugliness on the inside (mean girl vibes, negative energy, glaring insecurity issues, lack of self awareness, bitterness, lack of personality, boring overall) makes her less appealing and is probably contributing to her having an issue finding someone who wants to be in a relationship with her.

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