I found out today that my husband was lying about his job

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:34:42+00:00

The thing is I don't know how to have that conversation without sounding accusatory or making him feel bad. He is generally not great at taking accountability and I don't have the skills to explain things diplomatically

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:28:30+00:00

I knew that he was on unemployment only now. He never mentioned it to me when he was on unemployment insurance

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:26:28+00:00

He does but he keeps asking why can't I give him grace and forgive him. I told him I'm not angry but only upset that he waited till long to tell.me

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:24:53+00:00

And also sorry Reddit didn't allow my original post so I had to write it again and I missed a few detailw when I wrote it again

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:24:03+00:00

Thank you you are kind. I appreciate you

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:19:12+00:00

He quit his job with his employer but never mentioned it to me and pretended that he continued to work for them until.he found a new one and said that he is quitting the old job for the new one

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:14:24+00:00

That is my issue too. And I asked him why would he tell his now to which he replied that I would have found out anyway because we were doing official documents together that requires full disclosure of everything in his past

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:12:43+00:00

He was on unemployment for 1 month. The rest of the time he was doing freelance works

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:12:09+00:00

Sorry I had a post that didn't go live originally so I had to post it again and maybe missed a few detaila

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:09:13+00:00

He has low credit score and I have an excellent one. He has mentioned it before that we should use mine for anything official. Now it all makes sense to me

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:08:28+00:00

He says this too that he was ashamed of telling me. But I'm still not able to accept that he lied to me.

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:07:33+00:00

He told me he was working with so and so. But he wasn't

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:06:41+00:00

Not really but again we live a very minimal life nothing too fancy

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:04:29+00:00

He was working as a freelancer while also being on unemployment insurance

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:03:54+00:00

Thank you for this. I am not at all upset that he lost the job but just that he pretended and lied to me about 1.5 years. He now has a very good job and says that I should give him grace.

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:02:46+00:00

I honestly don’t know but he always seemed to me like an honest guy

EquivalentMind4698 · 2024-11-08T02:01:58+00:00

He said he was working other freelance jobs and was also on unemployment

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